_H_NK
October 15, 2009, 7:12pm
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Ansoon
October 15, 2009, 7:14pm
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Well, halal way would be to start like this..
Aaoozobillahe…
i like this way better.. it adds authenticity to the whole conversation and if nothing else a laugh is guaranteed… well done funguy..
McPendo
October 15, 2009, 7:16pm
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CP i thought you were neutered
Re: Fiance and ‘future’ related topics
sing a song “hum tu hain eik family, chinuuuuu..munuuuuuu…papa aur mummi”
ager uss ko KUM ya ZIADA chehyeee hoon gaay tu he/she will correct you right there
funguy
October 15, 2009, 7:47pm
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When he said “halal” way of doing this, I just couldn’t resist…
..what she thinks about the kids??? tell her my colleague had a baby .. so lets go out to buy some baby stuff…and from there u can talk about babies and see her interest/reaction u know…
Mama, because some of my desi brothers are overtly shy (or pretend to be) and are more comfortable with bringing up silly questions in front of random strangers than having an adult conversation with their significant others. This is the direct result of excessive segregation between the sexes in our land of the Pak .
then how come they bring it in front of stranger guys/gals ?
MIAinVA
October 15, 2009, 8:17pm
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^You take the cake for the dumbest question of all
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funguy
Gina
October 15, 2009, 9:27pm
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Well, halal way would be to start like this..
Aaoozobillahe…
^ Just like that, make sure she wears her naqaab and you you’re topi.
Re: Fiance and ‘future’ related topics
Just ask her if she likes kids and how many and when would she like to have them after nikah? It’s so simple na.
CE
October 15, 2009, 9:40pm
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I didnt understand the joke
zayma
October 15, 2009, 10:07pm
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nor me lolz
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“so how do you feel about kids?”
sereen
October 15, 2009, 10:22pm
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Well, halal way would be to start like this..
Aaoozobillahe…
sadzzz
October 15, 2009, 10:30pm
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So true aahmed.
CP. Just talk to her.
Financial issues are the number 1 reason for divorce.
Kids: birth control? What forms?
You’d be surprised at what answers you get from people.
right on
these are smart things to discuss… infact, when discussing how many kids or when you want to start trying (like PCG has said), discuss contraception, discuss the finance.. how it will be handled… discuss when clothes restrictions start. But talk in a general manner… not like “this is the final word” type thing… be open to opinion and different point of views
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Or if their ideas are drastically different , don’t marry them only to complain later.
Funguy
That is hilarious.
