Well, halal way would be to start like this..
Aaoozobillahe.... Amma baa'd. Yaa Begum-e-mustaqbil, insha'Allah anqareeb nikkah wa rukhsati pattaakhaz and biryaniz. Baa'd tohfa tahaayef, kiyaa pilaan aapkay? Yak, du, teen chotay chotay bachay YAA awwallun live like romance and muhabbattun and then aik durjun bachay hoyun?
^^^ HAHAHAHHAHAHAHA lolzzzz
my hubby asked me after nikkah but I think this question should be asked before.
I dont think there is halaal or haraam way of asking all you do is you say mere khayaal se if we are potentially to get married we should be open with each other isliye main jaan na chaahunga k bachon k baarey mein aapki (aapke) kya philosophy/(khayaalaat hain) hai ...?