Would you tell your work/office/employer that you are or will be starting fertility treatments?
Would they treat your absences as a vacation or sick days? What would be fair? I could think that many employers think that having fertility treatment is a not a medical leave (like cancer treatments) but an optional one.
What would you tell your manager and/or colleagues to explain your absence?
luckily most of my appointments for treatment were scheduled at 7:30am.
although when i was going to the hospital for check ups every two weeks when i was pregnant, some people at work were complaining that i was putting it under appts instead of sick. apparantly, if the appointments are for a 'recurring reason' then it has to go under sick leave.
Its best to speak to an HR proffessional in regards to whether time off would count as sick or not. As for telling my manager, I just told him I was going to be having frequent doctors appointments due to on going medical monitoring. He did not ask for details, but if he did I would have been okay with explaining.
I did make sure that I had someone cover for me during. I did make sure that when possible my appointments were early in the morning or later in the afternoon so I would be a little late or leave a little early as opposed to having the appointments during the afternoon and missing a big chunk on the work day.