And this Sunshine, is EXACTLY what I’m talking about. The dismissive and put upon attitude of men that says to women better than words can, that a woman’s plight is not legitimate and that any inequity in treatment can be reasoned away. Men relegate women to the status of whiners who don’t know how good they have it. These same men, without once trying to gain an empathetic perspective on what a woman goes through, render judgment about women which at best, makes a woman doubt herself and at worse, denigrates women.