Fellows have you dated non-desi girls?

[X2]

labanese are not marriage material

of course they are not, they come from a fictional country of laban aka yoghurt.

[PyariCgudia]

I agree with more fun part ;). Thanks buddy!. I definately advise my fellow brothers to try girls from other cultures!.

I guess the ladies in your family aren't too fun either.

I mean, they're Pakistani right?

[Sehrysh]

I agree with more fun part ;). Thanks buddy!. I definately advise my fellow brothers to try girls from other cultures!.

Treat women with some respect. You're contemplating dating this Turkish girl - if she were to become your wife, your friends would say, isn't she one of the girls you tried? Better yet, if some European or Middle Eastern dude said about a girl from your family - "let's try her" would that be okay?

[CM]

Re: Fellows have you dated non-desi girls?

You ladies need to untwist your panties that is for damn certain. That is guy talk. If you don't understand it, don't comment on it.

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Fellows have you dated non-desi girls?

Precisely why we need to comment on it. You men need to stop treating women like objects if you ever want to get laid.

[Sara516]

@PyariCgudia

I guess the ladies in your family aren’t too fun either.

I mean, they’re Pakistani right?

@Sehrysh

Treat women with some respect. You’re contemplating dating this Turkish girl - if she were to become your wife, your friends would say, isn’t she one of the girls you tried? Better yet, if some European or Middle Eastern dude said about a girl from your family - “let’s try her” would that be okay?

@PyariCgudia

Precisely why we need to comment on it. You men need to stop treating women like objects if you ever want to get laid.

:k:

[CM]

Re: Fellows have you dated non-desi girls?

Show me where he treats any woman like an object.

Hassan definitely stick with the Turk. You won't have these issues with her!

[diwana]

Re: Fellows have you dated non-desi girls?

I see desi gals being edgy here... :)

The guy is happy with non-desi. Let him be.

Go for it dude. Great advantage there...Least if you are angry, you can curse in Urdu (or whatever you speak) and she will still smile at you...:D

[X2]

I see desi gals being edgy here... :)

The guy is happy with non-desi. Let him be.

Go for it dude. Great advantage there...Least if you are angry, you can curse in Urdu (or whatever you speak) and she will still smile at you...:D

attention to detail qibla..baychari ki phainti lagwa daen gaye aap..read below :)

This girl speaks very good urdu because her father was Turkish diplomat in Pakistan.

[diwana]

@X2

attention to detail qibla..baychari ki phainti lagwa daen gaye aap..read below

Yes!

Hassan don’t take my above advice!

Learn Pushto…LOL

[aaliyahkhan1]

Re: Fellows have you dated non-desi girls?

Why does so many threads in life1 always turn into serious male/female bashing specially if a desi likes a non-desi girl/boy!!!

Its soooo disappointing :hinna:

@diwana

Learn Pushto…LOL

Ummmm…srry to disappoint you…but if she is a smart girl…no matter which language he curses in she would know he is cursing…

[Gina]

@CM

Show me where he treats any woman like an object.

Hassan definitely stick with the Turk. You won’t have these issues with her!

Yup, you’ll have different issues with her :halo:

Nearly all women are the same..be it Arabs, Indians, Chinese, Turkish, Jordanian…

[CM]

Re: Fellows have you dated non-desi girls?

Pfft if all woman were the same then why are so many men happily married and so many others divorced and miserable. There are definitely categories of women :D

[Gina]

Because the 'pagals' forgot that women come with in-built nakhra.. :@:

[diwana]

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Ummmm....srry to disappoint you...but if she is a smart girl...no matter which language he curses in she would know he is cursing....

I am very very disappointed. :(

............I was J/K

[Hassan007]

@NiceUsman

Turkish women are generally very beautiful, they are like goris with eastern values.
They make excellent wives, their only problem is language.

I agree buddy. She is very family girl and did i mention she works, study part time and takes care her house as well. She is finishing her undergrad and will be graduating this year insha’allah. Very down to earth girl.

@clad

U should not worry about other people experiences, U like the girl go for it buddy…

Thanks buddy.

@BarbieCue

no no no Gina..** he means to say no one tolerates more crap from men than pakistani women… get it? thats the hidden msg… their definition of a good wife is one who stays chup chaap and cooks n cleans n doesn’t know her rights… etc..

**
Wrong! When did i ever say any negative thing about pakistani women?

@zobia

motto of my life: Dont Date, Drink and Disguise.

kher, if you really believe that she is da One…Go For It. but the fact is these ethnicity are only there for identification purposes. every women is same and same goes for the men…and this is not what i said…it is said by my indian friend who dated goray, kalay, desi walati everyone.

but if you believe that now is the time for you to get married…then she is da One.

ps. its better to do Istakhara.

Well again, i never compared pakistani women with any other women out there. I do agree, women is women be it from anywhere. However, i do believe that there is far less drama from non-desi chicks.

@Hulahoop_Queen

wow, do you sound happy or what?!

Yes..i just have good feeling about this.

@NaMaan

If chemistry is there , then for sure go for it . Good luck :k:

Thanks Namaan.

@Decent_6Chora

aaah Turkish girls are pretty. No question about it and you are lucky if you can find one with pretty heart too. I can relate to the story except for the fact that if was only friend with one such Turkish beauty

Good lucky buddy :k:

Well thank you decent.

@PyariCgudia

I guess the ladies in your family aren’t too fun either.

I mean, they’re Pakistani right?

Whats up with you and assuming that i am comparing women from different nationality? Get your head straight.

@Sehrysh

Treat women with some respect. You’re contemplating dating this Turkish girl - if she were to become your wife, your friends would say, isn’t she one of the girls you tried? Better yet, if some European or Middle Eastern dude said about a girl from your family - “let’s try her” would that be okay?

And the amount of desi male bashing doesn’t count, right?

@diwana

I see desi gals being edgy here…

The guy is happy with non-desi. Let him be.

Go for it dude. Great advantage there…Least if you are angry, you can curse in Urdu (or whatever you speak) and she will still smile at you…

@diwana

Yes!

Hassan don’t take my above advice!

Learn Pushto…LOL

Well thanks much. I truthfully wasn’t expecting this all. Especially my recent break up with ex. Just going slowly insha’allah. Naa..never swore or mistreated my family and other people let alone her.

[Scarface]

@Hassan007

I agree buddy. She is very family girl and did i mention she works, study part time and takes care her house as well. She is finishing her undergrad and will be graduating this year insha'allah. Very down to earth girl.

Thanks buddy.

Has she got a sister? ;)

[firenze]

@CM

You ladies need to untwist your panties that is for damn certain. That is guy talk. If you don’t understand it, don’t comment on it.

Spot on, bro :k:

@PyariCgudia

Precisely why we need to comment on it. You men need to stop treating women like objects if you ever want to get laid.

been their done it (many times)

[firenze]

Give it some time bro, the cultural difference is overwhelming in multicultural marriages.
Go out, have a lot of talking - then sit and evaluate your future planes with brain not heart.

Wish you good luck :k:

@Hassan007

Howdy fellas!.

I met this Turkish girl who used to be friends with the turkish girl i dated long time ago. I met her couple of months ago at the resturant i took my parents for a dinner. She was there with her parents and siblings. I remember we used to be good friends..then lost track of each other etc. Anyhow, i think i felt pretty good after meeting her family. This girl speaks very good urdu because her father was Turkish diplomat in Pakistan. Her parents got along with my parents instantly right there. Then we have been talking on the phone occasionally ever since. Now just yesterday while on the phone she told me “i enjoy your company and i would like to take our friendship to the next level”. To that i told her the story about my past ex-love. And how it has effected me. Then she said that we are friends and lets begin with friends. I was amazingly surprised by her positiveness and the fact that she was willing to make things right if we were to go ahead and be together. She has excellent character and personality and she is very pretty. I think i am planning to marry her…life is too short.

So fellows have you ever dated non-desi girl who is just awesome simply!. If you did, how was your experience?

[zobia]

Re: Fellows have you dated non-desi girls?

your story reminds me of my greek friend. she is really beautiful. if she wears shalwar kameez, she looks so pakistani kuri. she is been with this sikh doc for about i think 3-4 years. doc works in toronto general hospital.

she goes with him everywhere. she is kinda waiting that he proposes her…but he is not (well i see love for him in her eyes)

so guys if you are with someone for more than 2-3 years. its better not to make em wait any more. dont play with non-desi girls life, misusing their emotions only cuz they dont have baap bhai to laga you guys phenti.