I’m getting married in January inshallah in Pakistan! I’m from Canada and live with my parents here. I’m flying to London on Friday for two weeks stay followed by three weeks stay in Middle East and will be in Pakistan inshallah in the second week of November! I’m sitting in my room right now and it has hit me that I will be gone from here soon! My fiancé lives in Saudi Arabia and its a love marriage! We met in England! I have lived with my parents my entire life and a very pampered child!
I just saw my mom crying and it has made me so sad! I held my tears until I was in my room and have been crying non stop ever since then! I will be going to Saudi for three months and coming to Canada in April or May, back to my parents! But i still feel very sad and can’t see them crying! I’m emotionally attached to them! My mom takes care of every small needs that I have even though I’m 24! I need some words that would make me feel a little bit Better! I can’t seem to give my in laws that place in my heart that my parents have! I love my parents to death!
this is life...one moves on the life's journey. you are just entering another phase of life which is beautiful...parents expect and are happy to see this important transition in their child's life...this will bring them happiness and jou to see that their child is happy...who says you will have a disconnect with your parents? never! they live in your heart and you live in theirs. as long as you feel your heart, you will touch them...keep them in your prayers just like they will keep you...keep calling them, keep coming to vist them and keep inviting them over...iA, you and they will be happy...in loving relationships, distance don't mean much if your hearts are in a bind. :)
btw, mubaarakbaad on your shaadii...May Allah bless you and your husband and your new family...May Allah create love between you two...aameen
you sound like my little sister. You know something, what your experiencing right now, this is also a great blessing, your mother is not just crying with sadness but also with happiness, its kind of a mix-up feeling which almost every mother has and its natural. Think about it if you were at her place it would be really hard for you too. Its really great that she is able to express her feelings and show her love to you. There are times when our parents become cute little kids ageing no more than 2-3 years old and we have to up lift their spirits as if we are their elders. Now its ur time to be her elder and make her feel more happy, and try to be happy yourself that Allah has given you such a great moment of your life to be shared with your family and your love one. Just try to think positive and be happy.
