Re: feeling sad 
It was our third anniversary, everyone wished me and my husband except for my in laws. I feel so sad that why they don’t wish me. It always happens. 3 months ago it was my birthday and htey didnt’ wish me. Hubby reminded my MIL and she was like “tell her I said happy birthday.” Why couldn’t she do it herself? For hte last 3 years I’ve been wishign them on their birthdays, anniversaries, mothers day fathers day, and I send them gifts but they never do. It hurts me when you do so much for others and in return (she get thenga…I dont know what that means).
I asked hubby and he was like its okay, whoever did did and who ever didn’t, thats their marzi…why are you upset.
But I didn’t like it at all.
So I was thinking should I call my MIL and tell her that yesterday was our anniversary or should I simply ignore it (its difficult) because she does this only to me and not to her other bahus.
and last month she was feeling sorry bc she hurt me always and now she’s doing this again? Why did she say sorry if she didn’t mean it?