Hi guys,
im gettn married inshALLAH in 6 weeks time..but these days i just feel so low all the time,all of a sudden all of the excitement n all those butterfly feelings inside me have died.. 
i dnt know y im feelng like this..everythng is happening as i want it..yeah im busy at work n also managing the last moment things,so its like im busy all day..but im just upset,feel like cryng
is that normal???
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Yes sometimes its normal... because you are going to leave your family your home :(
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how old ru? arranged or love marriage?
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iv just turned 25...its arranged..iv been away from home for 5 yrs for my studies,n yes every time i used to go back to uni after my holidays i wud have a similar episode a day or 2 before leavng...but thistime its a bit more than that.. :(
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awww its just nerves hun. My friends getting married in a months time to her bf. And she's wanted to break it off a few times just coz of feeling like that. It happens. Once the day comes you'll be so happy inshallah.
iv just turned 25...its arranged..iv been away from home for 5 yrs for my studies,n yes every time i used to go back to uni after my holidays i wud have a similar episode a day or 2 before leavng...but thistime its a bit more than that.. :(
i think its called separation anxiety i used to go through the same when i was in hostel ..on vacations i didnt wana go back i used to miss my mom
Re: feeling low…
It happens…very common to feel emotional, disoriented and even snappy before your wedding. You might feel down, depressed, upset, etc.
It just means you’re obviously feeling the implications of marriage…starting over as someone’s wife versus being just someone daughter up until now.
Dont worry hun…it will be alright. 
How’s the MIL situation? :halo:
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hey congrats n dont feel low...............this is one of the best part of life..............so enjoy it fully............all the best n may GOD bless you
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NORMALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
sigh
been there, done that, bought the house.
still miss mummy..:
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ahh..thanks guys,ur making me feel normal now :)
@partyslims..MIL,dnt know much..so far all is well,but yeh im scared of my SILs..dnt have any particular reason to feel like that,but yeah they r 3,n i hav harldy ever lived with girls..dnt really have any girl cousins either,so just hope i have a good relation with them..do pray..
btw guys..do u think ill keep feeeling like this all the way till the weddng??
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Yeah, I didn't enjoy my wedding much cuz of that reason.... instead of being sad and quiet, I was just cranky and emotional and I was snapping at everyone :(
And I felt bad after the wedding also, I didn't cry at my rukhsati time.... baad mein khoob royi thi when I went to visit my parents.
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Bless you. Must be a real emotional time. I can't let myself think of the time when I get married as I just couldn't bear the thought of the emotional parting with parents. I'd rather a quick Vegas style wedding to spare all feelings lol.
Try to enjoy everyone around you, not be too nostalgic (though easier said than done) this is such an exciting time in your life as well as emotional, live it and love it :) If you're busy working and managing everything around you it may add more pressure, just try to enjoy these days cos you'll look back on them with fondness soon enough :) Also congrats and good luck.
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just keep praying and making lots of dua and inshallah you will feel better.
look forward to the wedding days coming up! inshallah, everything will go well.
you say you are having an arranged marriage, so maybe nerves are kicking in.
just out of interest how well do you know the guy? have you had a changce to get to know him? are you moving far away from parents home or abroad? could that be why you're feeling this way?
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@iyla
i know the guy abit..personally im a bit backward,so havent bothered with talkng too mcuh with him..but im not worried about him,hez pretty gud,so hopefully no worries inshALLAH..
n i wnt be going that far,just an hour drive from my parents place..
i guess its a bit because im just a bit scared about living with my inlaws..the big reason being that i dnt know how to cook,n i dnt have time to learn it now..do u think that could be the reason?