feeling lost

Lifestyle Relationships
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thanks for listening

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one of my friend had a same issue he use to call me and discus the same issues and some times more then that 1 day he said im going to divorce I was shocked and ask why u want to do that just realize what would be the after effects on u and ur family and what about ur wife think about it and discuss all after effects these things happens and don’t take wrong discussion give some time to ur relation and try to compromise when the time passes all things will be fine just pray to Allah and don’t take any kind of wrong decisions.

So pray to Allah Inshallah everything will be fine and I know it’s a difficult time for u just pray.

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thanks....i am trying prayer and have been doing it for a while now.
I dont think i am in the position to do anything at the moment, just go on with each day and live life for my baby....cuz he is the one that needs me to be happy and healthy.

but what happened to your friend? did he stay or did he go? is he happy now?

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Involving families isnt a good idea...emotions run high and things tend to get worse because no matter how unbiased they try to be...they are actually biased.

I would either consult a religious official or go for marriage counseling.

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Something is probably bothering your husband, you need to communicate more.
Maybe have a heart-to-heart talk when he's in a good mood (rationally, without arguing) and find out why he keeps fighting with you. And I agree with Reha, you guys probably need marriage counseling

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You need to talk about his behaviour. It's unacceptable and you shouldn't have to put up with it. He won't like it but it needs to be done. Why does your hubby have issues with your brother in law? Is he intimidated by him or maybe even jealous of him?

Marriage counselling would probably be a good thing to consider as previous posters have suggested.

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thanks

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How old are you both? You must be around 29 judging on your username. Are you living in Pakistan? Did you both grow up in the same country?

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i am 29 and he is 33
we live in Canada

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maybe he just said it out of anger.. i dont think u should take it seriously

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^That's the problem. If anger can make it so easy for one to lose control and say "we don't have no rishta..it's just on paper".......then it can just as easily lead one to say "the rishta is over...I want a divorce."

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There is definitely something big wrong here.... just sister's husband picking up the baby cannot produce such a big reaction. He obviously said that to hurt the OP... there's more to this story than the OP is telling.

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.am not saying i am perfect...i say stuff in anger as well but i know my limits

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^What leads him to act that way? What things piss him off that much? That is where the issue is. Not that you must change those things, but that is where you might find some answers.

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yeah i guess so

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What happens when you try to talk to him about that point? And how do you talk to him about it? How does he react to it? What happens next?

I am trying to understand your situation better. Let's hope for some light at the end of the tunnel!

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thanks....i am trying prayer and have been doing it for a while now.
I dont think i am in the position to do anything at the moment, just go on with each day and live life for my baby....cuz he is the one that needs me to be happy and healthy.

but what happened to your friend? did he stay or did he go? is he happy now?

Yes u have to live for ur babay and and ur babay needs u will see all things will be normal the approach u r following is good.

They both are fine now and sometime they get fight but it’s normal.