***The big problem ,Girls want to live as they were spending life before marriage.. That,s the reason They don,t feel comfort with hubby. Life going change with each step and things go to next direction .
We need to understand situation of present moments***
sometimes when I am feeling down it helps me to do something for someone else.......have you considered getting involved in some sort of charitable work?
perhaps tutoring kids at home?
this would provide you with a schedule/routine in at least two or three days of the week......distract you from those parts of your life that you simply cannot change right now.
Thing is you did not get married to do a lot of stuff alone. If women can learn to cook "pasand ka khana" for their men then cant men go out with their wives? One wants company, not just going out. Couples should do activities together (not all but at least some time should be spent going out etc.), otherwise why bother getting married at all.
^ from what I understand of where nadz lives, there is little to do even if they do go out.......there is only so much shopping and dining that one can do.