feeling lonely and depressed.

[Le_Pakistan]

Re: feeling lonely and depressed.

@nadz123

your right. i dont know. i have no friends here so its harder. and it is fairly uncommon to see girls just hanging out around here. my husband has never said i cant go anywhere, he says go out do whatever, but its easier said than done esp for him. i literally had to force him to go for walks with me in the evening he wanted to know wether my walks would clash with the upcoming cricket world cup…

jeez. anyway i was furious with him about not going anywhere, i did think back to the uk, where even there i would have to get him to go out, he wasnt the outgoing type there either, but we were alone, it was easier. and its more easier to go out, here men just stare and stare as you, making me uncomftble as well as him.

so maybe its him. maybe i need to rely on myself. maybe im not depressed, i dnt think i am. i just dont like it here. end of. and any excuse is fine. see, same scenario back home wouldnt bother me. it bothers me here. so RV, ur right.

The bold part and then this quote of yours

so i admit, i am feeling depressed. and before people tell me i can easily get out the house and go places, no i cant. wether your own families or whatever can do it in pak good for them, i cant so stop trying to make me feel like im makinh excuses.thing is, i feel like im begging all the time. begging to go out, begging to even go to the flipin doctor even.

So you are allowed to go out. Yes I know you want him to come along. But it is not as if he does not let you go out. If your husband never said anything like that, then why do you make it seem like he did.

In your first post you said that you have to beg to go anywhere. And now you say this.
Contradictions in every single thread of yours.

I am not being mean or heartless. But the fact is that you are not a seedhi saadhi meskeen woman. You know how to stick up for yourself. And your husband takes your side too. And you know that if you really want to go out, then noboy will stop you.

So instead of sobbing about how helpless you are, give yourself a huge kick under the butt and just go out.