Re: Feeling Guilty
I personally think, it's a multi-dimensional issue. You should dine out, and treat yourself once in a while; however, to make it a habit would be like deliberately making a point of spending extraordinarliy, while you could just have a decent meal at home, and overtime, charity that money to someone you could really use it and pray for you in return.
To live life and spend in modesty is the message delivered by the religion, and conscience ought to be trained to follow such discipline.
I eat out sometimes as well, but i try and not do it more than twice or thrice a month because what my $5-$10 won't do for me, will do much for someone elsewhere who is really worthy of it rather than me wasting it.