The whole point of this forum is for people to let off steam or get advice from people who do not know them and will not be partial or bias. If you have no advice to give then ignore the thread n stay away.
Nadz is nadz and this is the way she is. Yes sometimes she does not heed good advice that may be given to her, but she cannot help how she feels. She is just saying she is feeling guilty which to me is not a bad thing, If she didn’t feel guilty then some would say she is being heartless. Can’t win anyway!