I do not condone the so felt (by the Pakistanis) of the lack of respect by the Indians.
However, respect must neither be expected not demanded.
Respect should be commanded.
As such if the Pakistanis in General and the Pakistani Cricket Team in Particular have been faced with Disrespect or Disregard then they have the Mighty Tool of “Refusal”
If Pakistanis take a stand of not visiting India, not joining the IPL, not inviting the Indian Teams especially the Cricket Team until the Pakistanis are shown the proper respect which their station commands, then I am sure either the Indians will clarify that they have not meant any disrespect or they will suffer from the Refusal of the Pakistan Cricketers to Tour India or play in the IPL.
That is the way to get the respect you and your Teams deserve.
This Breast Beating will not get you anything but ridicule.