Feeling fat

system · January 25, 2005, 7:59pm

As long as i’ve known myself i’ve always been fat. Doesn’t matter if i’m stick thin or podgy ..i feel fat either way. When i’m thin, i’m fat. And when i’m chubby, i’m fat. And i guess i really have never been fat just the fear factor lurking there. But it pisses me off why i can never enjoy being a certain weight. Right now i’m skinnier than i was a year ago yet i feel fat. If i put on any weight i’ll feel fat even if i need to put on. And if it’s like weight lost…its the best feeling in the world though i don’t need to lose and i might look silly being stick thin. I don’t know what triggers the obsession. Find myself thinking deeply about food and weight and stuff. Why are us girls never happy with our weight ? Ughh…

lastknightess · January 25, 2005, 8:03pm

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Well bulldozers like myself who need to shut our traps (so that no food falls through) don’t..and you.. my lady perfectly delicate and graceful …you shouldn’t be worried one bit.

You’re beautiful inside out…even IF you do become FAT (which I doubt you ever will from what you’ve told us about your constitution) you’ll still be beautiful to me

hiccup · January 25, 2005, 8:21pm

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i am fatter, no matter how fat you get look at a pic of me and be grateful

_MuNiYa · January 25, 2005, 8:30pm

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Ask yourself... are you physical looks all you have to offer?

Dunno about you.. but Im three dimensional..
I can have curves (which most men like anyway) and still be as hawwwwwwwt as any other chick half my size.

lastknightess · January 25, 2005, 8:38pm

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Yep Muniya said it right...fat women can be hot too you know..fat isn't ugly...even hiccy is gorgeous...we 3 tubbies look great bumpin and grinding ;)

hiccup · January 25, 2005, 8:40pm

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ok i am not tubby

edit: what do you mean EVEN

Mussolini · January 25, 2005, 8:44pm

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Those who are fat and think they're beautiful or hot are in a state of denial. In general being fat is an undesired trait.

Miss_Mohabbat · January 25, 2005, 8:49pm

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fat cows :p

None of you guys are fat, so hush, u aint seen fat lasses until you'v seen "celebrity fat club/fighters?" dance to Shakalak Baby from Bombay dreams!!

i love British television :)

DD-all women do this, some just like to think about it more than others, and even those who say they dont think about it, do...they'r just good at lying. It's kinda like the same with men and their "sizing" complex...divent worry about it pet.

skhan · January 25, 2005, 8:50pm

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Thanks for the reality check. It was desperately needed.

hiccup · January 25, 2005, 8:56pm

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Why? were you putting on a bit of weight?

lastknightess · January 25, 2005, 8:59pm

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Mussolini we aint talking about being unhealthy here…we’re talking about having curves and actually havinf some flesh on our bones…and I hardly think that;s undesireable.

It’s undesireable when it becomes a health issue..until then it’s all good.

And even somene grossly over weight can be hot or even beautiful…beauty is in the eye of the beholder and has nothing to do with how heavy you are.

Nilu · January 25, 2005, 9:24pm

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Lil bit fat is ok i think, and dont use that scale's or something.

dutch_paki · January 26, 2005, 12:25am

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AQ · January 26, 2005, 12:33am

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lussi · January 26, 2005, 1:37am

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cmon DD, ur georgeous. What do u need to worry about?

Verizon · January 26, 2005, 1:51am

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DD: How long have you known yourself?

Moodie_Foodie · January 26, 2005, 2:06am

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im with u on that boat

system · January 26, 2005, 3:20pm

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Verizon uncle, of my 23 years i’d say 8.

Devi, i love you. I thought of you last night. Thought how similar i am to you. Don’t know whether i sound it but when i read your stuff…it’s like something i’d have written. And now you’re on the same boat as me..same as same can be.

lussi, aww thanks chanda.

Guys, i’m not fat and never have been. More that i feel fat when i’m not, watching what i eat..feeling like i need to constantly monitor how many lbs i’m gaining or losing when it really doesn’t make a difference as i am always told to eat more, put on more. This craze..don’t know how it starts. I guess watching friends do the same. Chalo..i let it out of my system.

system · January 26, 2005, 3:21pm

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And to my healthier friends i think you all look ravishing. Totally delightful and i can say that with hand on heart cas i just saw some hot hot pics.

Rukhsarbibi · January 26, 2005, 4:43pm

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Same here DD. I feel fat too no matter if I have lost weight or not. The satisfaction that I receive from losing lbs is very short lived Yes, everyone says I’m crazy and need to get my eyes checked.