Well the way she portrayed her sitaution was that all her contact with Pakistani and Muslims have been negative. I wanted her to feel good. she never had any Muslim friends. in fact she was never acknolwedged for her success no matter what. she had a history from her past that made me feel that I could help her.
There is nothing wrong with hepling others is it? isnt that what our religion teaches us? of course one should have one’s limits…
my need to make her feel succesful was cuz I myself am successful and could coach her. she benefitted a lot from it. and she developed and prospered which made me feel happy..to be able to share my success with others…i didnt need any approval from her..as i considered her my sister…