Re: feeling at an all time low…
Does “leaving him” have to mean something like divorcing him? No. It could also mean just walking out of the room…taking a temporary break, etc.
Am I sure that’s a good idea? I dunno. I’m not married…I’m not the authority on marriage/relationships. I’ve never claimed that my advice (whether long or brief) is the best or that it will work. I’m just putting forth suggestions like everyone else…and the OP can decide for themselves what is the best course of action for them to take. I do believe that things are not so black and white. SOmetimes talking it out and sticking around works. Sometimes being the bigger, kinder person works. And sometimes being more blunt and taking stronger action gives a stronger message. The frequency of the offenses also plays a role in deciding what strategy to use. And how one reacts to it will also vary.
hehe the reason why i asked that question is because i personally shy away from ultimatums…but i am literally unsure in this case it may be a good idea…or it may not …still confused about that
but ur ryte it cud mean as simple as walking out of the room only