Re: Feel like Allah doesn’t answer my duas
A few points–
- Reading your post reminded me of this:
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I’ve read that in order to have duas accepted, we must abstain from haram. Though I know this specifically applies to food and earnings in that they act as a blockage for duas, I wouldn’t find it hard to believe that it extends to matters like this as well. If you’ve been in a relationship with him for 4 years, you can’t say that was halal. Even if you were to marry, that still does not atone for the prior relationship.
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My guess is that he’s still sincere with you, that’s why he’s blocked all communications as he is convinced it might not get anywhere.
I just want to clarify that I’m not judging either of you. I don’t mean to be harsh, but I’m just trying to provide perspective.