Re: Feel like Allah doesn't answer my duas
Thankyou everyone for your input.
I dont have a sister to talk to nor a bestfriend that will understand what i am going through.
You can talk to us.
he was the best thing that ever happened to me
Alhamdulillah. Allah granted you an experience and taught you that you have the capacity to love someone. You are blessed.
Thank the Almighty for this experience.
As humans we have a tendency to form opinions about our life based on that which has already passed. In doing so, we forget that we have a lifetime ahead of us.
Think about the even more wonderful things that Allah has in store for you in the future insha Allah!
and Allah put him in my life when i needed him the most.
Alhamdulillah. Allah provided for you when you needed someone. Isn't that proof that the Almighty loves you and looks after you?
Don't lose hope now.
The only thought that keeps coming to my mind is...why did Allah put feelings in our hearts when He would separate me from this guy.
So that you would learn a lesson.....which that is I'm not sure....only you can reflect and determine....
- learn that not everything in life is permanent
- learn that the heart is fragile and should be treated delicately
- learn that Allah will provide for you when you truly need
- learn that Allah knows what's best for us more than we know ourselves
- whatever other lesson you think you needed to learn.....
I loved him so sincerely and I can assure you that he was very sincere aswell.
Perhaps he was sincere. Perhaps there are circumstances that kept him from being able to communicate to you his reasons for stepping away.
Perhaps he is protecting you from some horrible truth that would hurt you more and turn you bitter....
Perhaps he was not sincere and your perception of him is skewed.
There are so many possibilities.
I cant understand why he left me at all. If only i knew what is going on maybe it would be easier for me but its not.
It is easier to get over lost love....because more often than not, we find another to love. But it's not easy to get over betrayal. Imagine if there was someone else in the picture and he was not faithful to you. Imagine if you came upon that reality.....how hurtful it would be. It could have the potential to destroy your future relationships. Isn't it better that you don't know if all this is the case?
Another perspective is this....imagine all the people that lose loved ones and never get an explanation. Some are lost in accidents like plane crashes, some in wars...many bodies are never found. If it helps you to think of this loss in a similar way then do so.
I know i shouldnt complain to Allah but I cant help it.
I would ask you that if you know something then why can't you help it? But I know that when we are emotionally disturbed we don't have logical control over our feelings. So if it gives you comfort to complain to Allah then do it. Afterall we only complain to the one that we have expectations from. So share with Him the pain that you are feeling. Tell Him how much you are hurting. Then ask Him to give you relief. Ask Him to guide you out of this despair.
I cant stop thinking that why Allah is putting me through this. Allah gave him to me and I was so thankful but why is He taking him away from me now? After i have fallen for him.
why?
I can't promise that you will find answers to your questions. But if you dwell on the "why" then it will be harder for you to accept reality and move on....which it seems you must do.
