I’ve been really depressed for the past couple of months…its an on and off depression like i’ll go into this sad state for a couple of days then maybe for a day or two i’ll be fine again
i feel like i have nothing to look forward to because everything that i had hoped for hasn’t come true and my mother keeps yelling at me for looking so sad saying how all the other girls are happy all the and whats wrong with you…i really feel hopeless because there are so many things that’re really bothering me and she knows what it is but she pretends to not and just tells me to be patient but i’m running out of sabr and i feel hopeless …i’m a very emotional person and i cry at everythng which is really taking a toll on me now
friends just dont understand and only my sister does but she’s really too young to help me out …i’ve really tried talking it out with my mother and at that moment she seems as if she really does want to help me but then the next day it’s back to the same old thing
i dunno if made any sense but i wanted to get my feelings out
Re: feel depressed
i wish all ur sadness goes far far from u…
Re: feel depressed
Sometimes, crying is the solution, so if you feel like, I suggest do vent yourself out.
Look at things from bigger perspective ... whatevr is bothering you, is it going to matter 2 years down the road .. if not .. then its not a life changing issue ..
I know its easier said than done ..
my prayers are with U and for your happiness
Re: feel depressed
Only depression won't help. Try to find the solution to the problems. Mostly we feel bothered about some thing, if we can't do anything about it ... or we don't hve enough confidence to implement the solution.
So be confident and face the problems rather than running from it.
Good luck.
Re: feel depressed
I can feel what you are going thru, bisoux. And it very much makes sense. Depression is killing esp when you do not find people around who can understand you and counsel well. Its not that anyone has solution for what one is going thru at that particular moment, sometimes only time decides. But atleast words can provide some comfort. Well, first of all, make yourself clear with the thing that is bothering you, if there is, any. Give yourself and this thing ample time, for once, and think about it in deep and clear terms. Once, when you come to a conclusion, and that might prolly be that its not in your hands. And once you know you cant do any thing about it, you can make yourself understand that worrying about it and getting depressed wont work. Do write something if it helps…Go for some creative activity. Other than that, try to keep busy.. See friends, indulge in things that make you feel better and can bring you out of this state of yours. Believe me, untill you, yourself give it a try, even with an artificial giggle, you wont be able to come out of this state. I hope you feel better soon 
Re: feel depressed
Try to keep yourself busy doing the things that make you feel better. Do what you are good at and what makes you proud of yourself.
Re: feel depressed
thanks guys for really being so supportive and thanks for the messages :)
Re: feel depressed
Bisoux, hang in there and don give up, as everyone said ur best option is to actually figure out a solution, may Allah give u patience and strength Aameen.
p.s go to CAFE and have some bonga time sometimes dat helps too. May be you got to stop thinkin bout ur problesm for a while.
Re: feel depressed
sweet heart go to ur doctor and consult with him they are trained in this stuff and u can tell them ur problem and they keep it confidential so by telling him/her ur problem they might just help u find the solution to all this
Re: feel depressed
some days are sad enuff to be forgotten ,