You say that you get angry and stressed....if you respond to his arguments in an angry way, it can make things worse and I know that it's tough to control your own temper. It requires a conscious effort...so take that into consideration. You haven't provided any details. Reflect over your own faults as well and think about what things trigger the arguments and maybe try to avoid them. When your husband is in a calmer mood....try talking to him about how you feel that your marriage has been tense lately and how you both can work together to get things back on track again. Maybe a brief vacation might help. I dunno....I hope things get better for you both.
There's enough spice I know that but the arguments it's actually quite stress ful I'm very head strong but I've changed and alot calmer it's jus there's times when u jus have enough
There's enough spice I know that but the arguments it's actually quite stress ful I'm very head strong but I've changed and alot calmer it's jus there's times when u jus have enough
There you go again with yet ANOTHER vague post. If you're going to post your problem in a general way, you're going to get general advice. If you provide some details, then you're likely to get more specific suggestions. I believe that others besides myself had also told you that your post is too vague.
GO to “marriagebuilders.com”, read their forums, join and ask question, read book “his needs Her needs”, you are falling out of love, you can pray, do wazifas or whatever you want, but do something practical to bring back your marriage and the love you once had. http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=postlist&Board=8&page=1 Good luck, keep in mind, “problem marriage is better then no marriage”
Nothing working hubby n I keep arguing I'm always in the wrong can't seem to do anything right
I get so angry completely stressed ..,
Please no jokes as can't really seem to bare them at mo
Read La ILAha ila anta subhanaka inee qunto minaz za li meen, 100 times before sleeping and make a sincere dua from the heart, Inshallah things will be ok. I've found in my life this works for any kind of tough situation, sub hanallah.
Read the 3 quls before sleeping and upon waking, and encourage your husband to read them too.
Get some other elder Muslims involved, most Mosques in North America offer counseling for couples. Get people involved who don't know either of you, to get a fresh perspective.
Also don't neglect the basics of Islam, make sure you are praying the fard salah, fasting, avoiding eating haram, avoiding alcohol etc..