Fear?

[zobia]

Re: Fear?

@anagnorisis

Change is among the constants of life. But if we can influence the process of change, we should try to ensure that it’s a change for the better and not for the worse. For example, we must find a better alternative if the status-quo has become untenable in our eyes. The other kind of change is beyond our control. But how we react to it makes all the difference.

I’m not against changing the curtains of my living room. As a matter of fact, I’ve never liked them.

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[zobia]

Re: Fear?

@Dushwari

interesting topic, zobia :>
very nice.
here is what i have to offer. change/development makes sense if you are improving your grade for an exam by retake.

y everything have to do with grades?

@Niksik

If you don’t change, you can never grow.

but the world around us wont stop growing, we slackerz!

@IntelliPhant

Change is a must, …Change is a must, whether you like it or not!!!

so “making a change” is in your hands?

[chintu_bhopali]

Re: Fear?

@zobia

do you fear the change/development, or are you passionate to try out new things in life?

p.s. this thread is not for discussing change and developments serperatly. but if you want to, then go ahead

yes i am fearful of changing my status from single to commited or married. what should i do about it .Please help me aunt zobia.

[Dushwari]

Re: Fear?

intelliphant,

universe and climate change, instances from nature and metaphysics, do exhibit change/s, too, but always with a disturbance, with a change that may not always be suitable for life construction. there is alot of deconstruction before reconstruction takes place.

some, ends in better reconstruction, and other, in ruins and chaos.
so, this change theory, is good all at the same time, needs to be approached some with level of certainty within own existence and stability, not capriciousness, in terms of human interaction, more specifically.

makes sense?
when you will change and it will improve something in your life, that will be a real good change, but when you change for worse or ugly, that is not good.
and that is the difference that, i feel, ought to be kept in mind, when working with changes!

best,
Dushwari

[IntelliPhant]

Re: Fear?

@zobia

y everything have to do with grades?

but the world around us wont stop growing, we slackerz!

so “making a change” is in your hands?

There are countless directions where by you can look onto the subject of change. My rationale was to elaborate an “enduring change”, and our helplessness. Like Iqbal said “sabat ik taghaiyur ko hey zamaney men”. In that we can not control the change, as I speak now.

[UZ]

Re: Fear?

@zobia

do you fear the change/development, or are you passionate to try out new things in life?

p.s. this thread is not for discussing change and developments serperatly. but if you want to, then go ahead

Equal sometimes change is good. Like Pakistan’s system really needs a serious change.

[TofiBaba]

Re: Fear?

There are countless directions where by you can look onto the subject of change. My rationale was to elaborate an "enduring change", and our helplessness. Like Iqbal said "sabat ik taghaiyur ko hey zamaney men". In that we can not control the change, as I speak now.

I was about to say that. I look forward to all kinds of change, for the worse and for the better. As the first teaches us humility and the second gladness. When people feel fear its actually a good thing, cuz that is what keeps us on our toes and ready to react. Its just a different form of excitement.

The whole reason I moved to IT from accounting was because of the perpetual change.

[IntelliPhant]

Re: Fear?

intelliphant,

universe and climate change, instances from nature and metaphysics, do exhibit change/s, too, but always with a disturbance, with a change that may not always be suitable for life construction. there is alot of deconstruction before reconstruction takes place.

some, ends in better reconstruction, and other, in ruins and chaos. so, this change theory, is good all at the same time, needs to be approached some with level of certainty within own existence and stability, not capriciousness, in terms of human interaction, more specifically.

makes sense? when you will change and it will improve something in your life, that will be a real good change, but when you change for worse or ugly, that is not good. and that is the difference that, i feel, ought to be kept in mind, when working with changes!

best, Dushwari

From anti universe to unicellular organism, change affects all. In our take on this subject, I am looking only to myself, and in that to my physical and intellectual being. Your rationale is broad and open. I am unable to engulf this gulf of "change" into mere FIVE lines on the pages of a forum. Hope that explains......

Peace

[goodBabu]

Re: Fear?

I is very scarey of light changing on darks