Fear of your own death

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problem yeah hai ke iss darya ko tub main bhee tairnaa nahi aata, samandar tou door kee baat hai

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not even untimely?

do you have kids?

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There is never a ‘right’ time to die and I am NOT ready to face God. I dont fear death but I just wanna be ready to face Him.

Family will really miss me, thats for sure. Because despite my shortcomings and my often rebellious attitude, I have tried to be a good son. (sounds paradoxical I know :blush: )

But in the end, zindagi migzara. (Life goes on!)

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Ok lets keep it non-religious. Fear of facing God because of not being prepared is always going to be there, even if you are 100 years old. Will you be afraid of death even if you dont believe in after-life or no?

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If one does not believe on after-life/hisab-kitab, then I guess it will be emotion of sadness more than fear.

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okay fair enough. Lets keep it non-religious then.

I will not be afraid of death. Not for myself specially when I believe that on the balance, I did more good than bad for myself and for the people around me. Mostly, I will be sad and bummed (and of course dead!)

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emotion of sadness as in "oh I am leaving my love ones" .. like the one we go through when the train starts to leave the platform?

Yo dont have kids, do you !! :(

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I don't know why, but nowadays i really think about my death. How i will die? will it be painful death or just a peaceful death. What will be my parents reaction and my sisters reaction? will my niece and nephew remember me as they are too young now?

Definitely i think about others. I don't think so i have done anything special in my life or anything memorable in my life so i need some more time so that i could do anything special for my parents at least. (religiously i have different fears)

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I’m afraid of death because of the unknown process of it. I don’t know whether I’ll die slowly of a disease, die instantly in a crash or whatever. Then I am afraid of what’s in store for me in the hereafter. I’m working on myself but I am counting on Allah ta’ala being rehman-ir-raheem :hinna:.

But I am afraid of dying before my kids are emotionally stable to handle the death of a parent. And that is why I pray to Allah for my sehat and life for as long as he can spare me.

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No, don’t have kids yet and that will add more to my sadness. Can you imagine my surprise if god does exist. :smack: That will be fun..

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my fear exactly

It will be fun for the GOD, not for you ..:stuck_out_tongue:

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No. But I have a younger brother who is almost like my son. I know maybe nore more than my own children but I do think I love him the most in this world. So I will be really worried about him while leaving this world.

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I think ALL parents fear that. And then after the kids grow up, parents fear drying before getting their kids married, then they fear dying before they see their grandchildren, then they fear dying period. Nobody is excited about dying as far as I know.

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haha, imagine Theorist getting up after dying and God saying ’ yo girl, surprised to see me.. Now lets have some fun shall we?’ :hehe:

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perhaps yeah but more intense ones...

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Hmmm, I think if I can take care of all that matters in rightful manner, I will die a happy man.

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i think untimely death of a child for a parent too is more devastating than a well-aged death when ones kids are independent and settled.

it's always about the family perspective (emotionally too even if nobody is dependent on us) IMO as well as the unknown circumstances leading up to it , slow eating up disease sudden yet very painful..it's the fear of the unknown too which is the morbid aspect.

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or even more dramatic .. “so I heard that you were spreading this rumor on GS that I dont exist”

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Worse than drowning, cancer. My dad's cousin told me that his uncle in India in the 1970s had prostrate cancer and every night for weeks would scream into his pillow in pain until he fell asleep 'till the day he finally died.

Fallout off a cliff probably wouldn't be so bad as long as the cliff was high enough to be instantly fatal. A moment of sharp pain followed by.... what comes next.

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It's one thing to die with peace in your heart that you left your loved ones with a stable future etc... but again, if givena choice, unless you are dreadfully ill, I think you'd choose to live a few more years, nahi?