fear of rejection?

system · September 30, 2003, 1:14am

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*Originally posted by Nadia_H: *

Really? In your experience, it has been mostly gals who have admitted this? wow that's interesting.. i thought it was the other way around for some reason.
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naa... its always been the girls... maybe my friends are just gutsy :) or they have someone like me around who makes em do crazy things...

Nadia_H · September 30, 2003, 1:39am

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**naa... its always been the girls... maybe my friends are just gutsy :) or they have someone like me around who makes em do crazy things...
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hehe :D

i wouldn't really call it a "crazy" thing :D Definitely takes a lot of guts.... you are extending yourself in a way one would never do, under 'normal' circumstances. Definitely takes a lot of courage, i think.

system · September 30, 2003, 3:03am

trust me nadia.. think sometimes its stupidity...

in my youthful days... when i didnt have an ounce of sense.. i located which uni this guy went to who my friend was in love with for about 2 years... so i got the details.. skipped class.. went to his uni... went up the lifts... found this one room.. and she walks past it.. and the guy is in there.. we stood outside for 45 minutes laffing our heads off... he came out and talked to her and then spent the next 2 hours talking to us .. even bought us coffees (my first coffee.. i had to pretend to be grown up).. hehe..

it was pretty funny stuff

waleed · September 30, 2003, 8:47am

the answer is not so smiple u know... sadzzz :p

hmcq: i disagreeee... it takes alot of guts.. specially if that someone is close to u... if u dont know them and u seen them somewhere its not that hard to go up to them ask them... if they reject u its not as if there is a friendship u might jeprodise :p .

nadia H : i hear u .. it takes alot of guts :p .

sadzz: wat i have seen is that girls r expectant that it should be the guy asking the girl out (dont ask me y they do that).

abc1234 · September 30, 2003, 10:24am

hmmm i think whether the friendship lasts or not after the 'rejection' depends more on the person who 'rejected'...she/he can make the other person feel more at ease about the issue and not feel bad so about being 'rejected'...:)

being a girl i dont think i would ever be the one to admit first :p but then again i've never been in such a situation so i dont know... :)

who-me · September 30, 2003, 12:49pm

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im proud of people who actually admit it... it takes a lot of guts. Most of the times its girls who do end up admitting it... and i think its great. Why die wondering?
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i wouldn't really call it a "crazy" thing Definitely takes a lot of guts.... you are extending yourself in a way one would never do, under 'normal' circumstances. Definitely takes a lot of courage, i think.
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Seems like you two ladies are talking from experience...? :o

:D

Nadia_H · September 30, 2003, 7:58pm

aw Sadzzz That’s so cute. i am certain we have all done things like that in our past… perhaps at a time of our lives when we had less knowledge than we enjoy at the current moment. i’m sure you wouldn’t do that today because, as you yourself stated in your post, when i didnt have an ounce of sense. Stuff like that is all part of ‘growing up’.

i would say that that was a ‘crush’ for you. It’s a totally different scenario when you actually fall in “love” with someone (i accept we all have differing definitions of “love”). If you really really liked someone, and it wasn’t a crush, i think you would have the courage to let them know… sometimes it’s more difficult to keep it in.

Waleed Thank you.

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Acha acha, very funny. :o

system · September 30, 2003, 9:55pm

hehe nadia

actually it wasnt my crush.. it was my friends.. she saw him some place once and fell in love and so like she told me about him and i did my jadoo and found him…