Lets say a person, sister, Sil or cousin is spending too much time on FB that kids are totally ignored, even their meal times are fogotton. They cry all the time, running after her. She is showing herself single and has many many male friends. and the postings on the wall shows young people in love. Lets say one of the child is showing signs of lack of development in speech or movement and she is nt looking into it.
Wat would u do? Knowing that husband who works already had argument with her abt her use of too much comp bt she didnt stopped.
Whould you ignore as well after seeing kid running around for food, and kutchen is full of it bt no one to give.
Kids health is affected?
Who or wat would you u say?
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you feed the kids.
if i see me SIL's kids are hungry, instead of opening a thread here I'd make them some sandwich or something.
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make the husband cut off the Internet connection
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you feed the kids.
if i see me SIL's kids are hungry, instead of opening a thread here I'd make them some sandwich or something.
Well nt necessarily SIL, Can be sister/cousin as I said.
Well I do feed, wat u if im nt there. Is this the solution?
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Well nt necessarily SIL, Can be sister/cousin as I said. Well I do feed, wat u if im nt there. Is this the solution?
If you're not there then how can you be so sure about the whole situation?
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make the husband cut off the Internet connection
FB free on fone bt other people use net ad well
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This happens when im there. I cant be there all the times
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your Sil or sis or whatever is addicted to internet and she needs help…perhaps her husband should giver her some attention and take her to see a psychiatrist.
oh but in our desi families such things aren’t considered a big deal. :hinna:
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Ask the husband to discuss this with the wife. The husband can also join the fb and ask the wife to list him as her husband. The husband can request the wife to use the facebook when the children are at school or when the husband is home to see the kids around. Only the husband can solve this problem.
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Send your SIL to therapy or rehab or whatever. Her behaviour isn't normal. This reminds me of the woman who murdered her baby for disturbing her while she was playing Farmville.
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Ask the husband to discuss this with the wife. The husband can also join the fb and ask the wife to list him as her husband. The husband can request the wife to use the facebook when the children are at school or when the husband is home to see the kids around. Only the husband can solve this problem.
Kids dont go to school yet. Husband is on main account bt not this one. Knowing they already had argument abt it, would u talk to husband
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Stay out of it. its none of your business. its between them if at all. if u are so concerned, feed kids when u are around.
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Roshni - I am assuming that you feel for the kids and this attitude from their mom upsets you because you love them. In my honest opinion the father should be the one to take a stand. I can understand that he is out all day long and she is the one at home but when one parent is ignorant or not existent then the other parent has the take the responsibility . Being a parent I can say that there is no justification for turning a blind eye towards your children need so thinking that I am at work all day long and this is not my job you can not allow your kids to suffer. He needs to take a stand and he needs to do it in a proper way. Sister or SIL whatever you are she will not listen to you. Father of the children will have to find a way to sort this matter out even if it requires counselling or any treatment for the mother in discussion.
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Well said diamond, Hope her FB craze gets over soon. Feeling really sorry for the kids.
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Is she your nand ?? 
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Its all the husband's fault.............he makes her unhappy........resulting in she neglecting children.........
btw.......i have a golden rule ...."Its their kids......they can throw them in dustbin....its their call"
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As long as the OP is aware of the issue, she can't ignore it and stay out of it, for the kids' sake !
the mother is crazy so let the husband deal with it, but i couldn't sleep at night if i knew my nieces/nephews are neglected especially for food, i have 6 of them so i know how that must feel like.
talk to the husband about the kids, or someone in the family if he's not doing enough, make him hire a nanny so that kids get food and attention, and maybe the crazy mother will realize something's wrong.
besides, of the husband talks to his wife about hiring a nanny, it will bring the question to table so maybe they can fix it
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Facebook is an Addiction way more powerful than Drugs, I think there are rehabs for them too.
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Will u do the same for nund’s kids? 
PS: On serious note. I agree to what hareem said 100%. I Cant imagine that someone care for those kids soo much to post a thread on GS but not make food for them. Is this post more in hub-e-Ali or bughz-e-Mavia ? 
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no I’d take them out and leave them in the middle of the woods.
http://www.tinkertaylorpuppets.info/images/Marionettes/hansel-gretel-witch-forest.jpg