Favourite Child

Do you believe your parents/or YOU have a favourite child?a child who is more close to you ,i always tought that my mom loves my lil sister alot,as she used to say that she always understands what i want to say and do what i always ask her to do.ok fine sometime u are not ur mama’s child:hoonh:

so tell me do u do favouratism in ur kids :slight_smile:

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I think my parents love me and my sister equally. We have never felt any unfairness, ever.

I used to think of how I could like my second child because I was very attached to my older one... but love gets multiplied not divided. I cannot tell who I love more. They are both as close to my heart.

I've read an article that I think even contained a statistic about how many parents actually do have a favorite child even though they don't admit it. Can't remember the number. And siblings can often times tell who the favorite child is. Makes me think of Everybody Loves Raymond, lol. And believe it of not, life isn't always easy for the favorite child because there is often a lot of pressure on them to be perfect.

Every child is different and has his/her own positive qualities. And these unique qualities cause parents to relate to each child differently. For example, a more independent natured child might not need as much attention from parents as more delicate natured child. I think it's interesting how parents may turn to one child as opposed to another for certain issues....as that child might be better suited. It's funny, fascinating, and irritating, all at the same time.

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Meybe you're right but I haven't experienced it yet. Perhaps when they grow older.

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I think at each time or another one of the siblings have felt that another one is the favourite.

I’m answering after your post.

Yes it’s very natural. It’s not believe it’s the way people do everywhere. Favourite mom or dad. Favourite kid, Favourite stuff. Favourite game.

Yeah favouritism is every where even in kids too.

There might be several reason to have a favourite child. It depends on parent what they values.

Jaisay hamari zyadatar desi maain ziada baiton ko pasand karti hain. Baition ko kaam. Phir baiton main say bhi kisi aik ko ziada. Aksariaat baray ya chotay ko ziada pasand karti hain.

Baaz maain betion main bhi imtiaaz baratti hain. Wajah koi bhi ho sakti hai na pasandeedgi ya pasandeedgi ki.

Is favouritism ki wajah say unka sulook bhi kafi defferent hota hai buchchon kay saath jo buchchon kay liaay bukul achcha naheen hota. Us different sulook ki wajah say buchchay main kai nafisaati problems bhi ho jaati hain jo baad main inko aik nakam insaan bhi bana sakta hai.

Bayshak kisi ko favourite banain ya koi lagay parents ko apnay sub buchchon main to koi farq naheen parta laikin agar uski wajah say parents buchchon kay saath imtiaazi sulook kartay hain ya na insaafi kartay hain to wo buchchay main bohat say problem paida kar detain hain. Jo us buchchay kay liaay agay ja kar real life main bohat nuqsan ka bais aur nakami ka bais bhi bun sakta hai.

Most of the parents do imtiazi sulook in daily life due to favouritism.

Kisi ko favourite banain per imtiazi sulook ya bayimani na karain buchchon kay darmiaan. Laikin aisa ho naheen sakta favouritism bayimani karwati hai.

You won't notice yourself. Ask your kid seperately they will tell you. Because they notice very minute things and you can't notice where you are doing favouritism.

Some kid do not express it at all. Even when you will ask them. They keep it inside that is very wrong.

My sister do favour her boys every single day and ignore her daughters no matter how bad those boys behave with those girls. She doesn't care at all.

Her daughter wants to live anywhere other then in her home. With grandma, me, mama or anywhere. My sister don't understand at all what she is doing to her girls.

Because they notice very minute things of love and favouritism and you won't due to your love or favouritism.