Fatima

nakhan · April 3, 2007, 9:35pm

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Innah lillah-e-wa inna elah-e-rajeoon
feeling sad :(

Addie · April 4, 2007, 4:14am

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Innah lillah-e-wa inna elah-e-rajeoon
May God give her soul rest in peace and give patience to all of you.

Afshi · April 4, 2007, 1:37pm

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Thank you all for your prayers.

Fatima was my neice. She had a rare blood disorder called HLH, and after a liver transplant and two bone marrow transplants, Allah finally decided that it was time for Him to take her back to Him.

insan · April 4, 2007, 2:05pm

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Innah Lillah Hay Wa Inna Illay Hi Rajayoon

Ramsha · April 4, 2007, 5:36pm

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Innah Lillah Hay Wa Inna Illay Hi Rajayoon
May Allah give you and your family the strenght and faith to get through this.

shweetdreamz · April 4, 2007, 6:56pm

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So sorry to hear about your niece fatima afshi. May her soul rest in peace. You have to stay strong.

redroses · April 4, 2007, 8:21pm

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ohh my god..its so sad iam so sorriee to hear his
inna lillahe wa iina illahe rajeyoon
may Allah give her parents strength to bear this all though its so hard to

aniiisa · April 4, 2007, 9:19pm

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Innah Lillah Hay Wa Inna Illay Hi Rajayoon

sayahu · April 4, 2007, 9:53pm

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Assalaam-U-Alaikum,

Firstly inna lillahe wa iina illahe rajeyoon.

No words will take away the pain of having a child taken away.

I do not know all the details as I have just come across this thread, but what is obvious is the compassion out there as well as the closeness of the other members as they all seem aware of who this child is, I don't and for this I feel greatly sorry.

I was blessed with a beautiful baby girl in February, and Allah S.W.T. gave me her for only a few days before she was taken away again. I can understand what your family must be going through, especially the mother. But the one thing that has given me strengh other then the hadith mentioned by Anwaar Qureshi , is some thing my husband asked me, if I as a mother wanted the best for her, and had so much love for even though I only had her for 12 days, then the love Allah s.w.t. would shower on her which would be 70 times what I could give, Which would I want for her?

All I want to say the child is in no pain, will have no challanges or unhappiness now, the mother however needs constant love and understanding even when she appears well and ok in herself, as the nights are difficult when you don't need to put up a front for any one, and so the tears will come unbidden.

I pray for you and your family as will all of my family.

(sorry for rambling)

May Allah give you subur to accept that which you can not change.

Lusi · April 5, 2007, 4:50am

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sayahu:

Assalaam-U-Alaikum,

Firstly inna lillahe wa iina illahe rajeyoon.

No words will take away the pain of having a child taken away.

I do not know all the details as I have just come across this thread, but what is obvious is the compassion out there as well as the closeness of the other members as they all seem aware of who this child is, I don’t and for this I feel greatly sorry.

I was blessed with a beautiful baby girl in February, and Allah S.W.T. gave me her for only a few days before she was taken away again. I can understand what your family must be going through, especially the mother. But the one thing that has given me strengh other then the hadith mentioned by Anwaar Qureshi , is some thing my husband asked me, if I as a mother wanted the best for her, and had so much love for even though I only had her for 12 days, then the love Allah s.w.t. would shower on her which would be 70 times what I could give, Which would I want for her?

All I want to say the child is in no pain, will have no challanges or unhappiness now, the mother however needs constant love and understanding even when she appears well and ok in herself, as the nights are difficult when you don’t need to put up a front for any one, and so the tears will come unbidden.

I pray for you and your family as will all of my family.

(sorry for rambling)

May Allah give you subur to accept that which you can not change.

Sorry to hear about your daughter. InshahAllah Allah will reward you for your sabar.

Raima_Noveen · April 5, 2007, 7:02pm

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So sorry to hear about Fatima.
May Allah swt give sabar to your family.

babri · April 6, 2007, 6:32pm

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Innah Lillah Hay Wa Inna Illay Hi Rajayoon............................
we are very sorry. its very sad.

Asma_Farhan · April 7, 2007, 4:44am

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oooooh I'm so sorry to hear that. Inna lillah-e- wa inna illaehi rajioon
May her soul rest in peace!
May Allah give patience to her family n Strength to bear this.
Amen

Hennakazim · April 7, 2007, 5:01am

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Inna lillahe wa inna ilayhe raaje'oon, its so sad, MAy Allah give the family the strength to bear this loss

Monk · April 7, 2007, 5:15am

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inna lillahi wa ina elehi rajeoon
Allah app ko saber dy-- aur life after meen app sab ko jennah meen unite kery

Aqls · April 7, 2007, 7:24am

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OMG ,So sorry to hear that.
Innah Lillah Hay Wa Inna Illay Hi Rajayoon

May Allah rest her soul in peace. and give you & your family strength - Ameen

zaZZy · April 7, 2007, 4:27pm

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omgg.. soo sorry to here this news ..May Allah rest her soul in peace
Innah Lillah-e- Wa Inna Illay Hi Rajeyoon

Dynamic_fire · April 7, 2007, 5:16pm

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*:( *
*INNA LILLAH HAY WA INNA ELLAIE HE RAJAIOON *

ALLAH usay Jannnat mai alah muqaam ata farmaiay Ameen
*and us k ghar waloon ko sabar ke dolat *

Amber11 · April 7, 2007, 5:21pm

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Inna lillahe wa inna ilayhe raaje'oon
:(

AnGeL_EyEs · April 7, 2007, 5:56pm

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Anwaar Qureshi:

Inna LillahaY wa Inna IlayehaY Ra’jeoon. May Allah:swt: give patience to the parents. Sad and tough times in life - another test from Allah:swt:…

Reminds me of couple of ahaadeeth that I had heard few years back (Googled them to get the exact wording):

According to one hadeeth Prophet:saw: said: Those who die in infancy will be of great help to their parents on the Day of Judgment.

Similary, another hadith tells us that such children will look for their parents among the masses of human beings who are all gathered on the Day of Judgment. When they find them they will lead them by the hand until they get them into heaven. They will entreat Allah:swt: on their behalf and will say to Him that their parents were deprived of the happiness and pleasure of having them when they were young. The children want their parents to have that happiness in the life to come.

In another Hadith Prophet of Allah :saw: informs us that when children who die in their childhood are commanded to go into heaven, they will stop at its gate and make loud noises. They will protest that they will not enter until they have their parents with them. *Allah:swt: will bestow His grace on both parents and children and order all of them to enter heaven together. *

Inna LillahaY wa Inna IlayehaY Ra’jeoon.

SubhanAllah…what beautiful hadith!

Tears are flowing down my face …May Allah give patience to her family and grant Fatima jannah…Ameen.