Fathers who aren't ready for parenthood

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Re: Fathers who aren’t ready for parenthood

@knjaved

^ it depends on mutual understanding. If husband is not ready n wife wants it then he should be limited in their relation to avoid it. Whether a husband should convince her wife or wife should have. couple should be ready for every upcoming stage after marriage.
I know this situation and going through it, so it is easy to say dear. No offence but its hard for one who is going through.

With all due respect, having a child is not something to be taken lightly and most certainly not something you “convince” another person to do. You cannot “convince” someone to mature and become mentally and emotionally ready for a child. That is something they must decide on their own and when they are ready. It’s this idea that people can be “convinced” into parenthood that results in the drama and problems that Saeed is referring to. Having a child is a lifetime responsibility and is something BOTH parties must be on the same page about and agree on of their own free will.