father disclosed my personal matter to family friends

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Re: father disclosed my personal matter to family friends

Reading this post, I am much more sure that you have a very loving family and these misunderstandings first between your father and his brother after your marriage was set then between you and your fiance and now between you and your father are created by the jealous shayateens around your and your fiance’s houses who are not happy to see you two happy and they’re trying to stop this marriage by creating misunderstandings and issues between different family members at intervals. The ultimate aim is not to allow happiness as this marriage will allow the families to come closer & strengthen the bonds. So as I said, make lots of duas and try to play quranic recitation to purify your house of the unseen evils. It’s clear that they are active.

@parisbynight

I am aware of my dad’s habbit but i am so close to my dad that i do eventually tell him everything. My dad is a very humble person in general and he can gives his world to his loved ones. However he has been upset by his brother and sisters and it all happened at the wrong time. My risha was arranged initally. Now it does feel like it was a love marriage and my fiance and I are the only one interested in this marriage.

I know my father love and respect my fiance(his nephew) for his good and fair nature and that’s why he never tried to call off the wedding but he is somehow taking his frustration on the wrong person. He isnt mean to him or anyone but he is frustrated at how things went in a different way that he had imagined.He feels guilty for me somehow but I always tell him that I am happy wherever I am. He doesnt realize how disclosing these personal issues to the outsiders makes him look bad as a father as people start telling why he is doing ‘zulam’ on me. I especially got uspet that he told them now , when it is ajust month to go for the wedding, because for two years i have always kept the big smile when talking about my rishta when talking to outsiders. I have never mentioned any ongoing problems. Now instead of giving me good wishes, these people are wishing pitiful good lucks as if i am going to jump in fire with evil inlaws.