Re: father disclosed my personal matter to family friends
Things like this happen in families. But in the end, families who care about each other will pull through it. Your dad is the way he is, can’t change that but he does love you as he’s your father. Maybe he’s just afraid of you being far away from him and wants to have you nearby. He’s probably just insecure and is lashing out at your husband instead.
I would say keep a distance for a while, and forget about what he’s told to people. At the end of the day, people will always talk about someone behind their backs. No one can win over the approval of every rishtedaar so I would ignore it and let people judge your husband when they meet him. When you two will be fine and happy in your lives, people will have nothing to talk about and move on to someone else’s life to discuss. Just ignore them and be happy with your husband. And forgive your father even though it’s hard. Your husband sounds like a decent man and I’m sure he will change the way people view him just based on his actions. So best not to even give it a thought.
i have forgiven my father… i know he loves me too much to hurt me intentionally. You are right…he is a tiny bit insecure that i am leaving him as i was always his ‘son’ as he calls me.
IA i hope my husband and I will manage to to keep both families tied together.