father disclosed my personal matter to family friends

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Re: father disclosed my personal matter to family friends

@parisbynight

No i am not 100% sure I can live there, and neither I am 100% he will never change his mind. However, I do want to give him a cance to decide. Fortunatly for us, his has a 15 months work visa that we will transfer into a spouse visa when it expires. We can then see how it goes in Pakistan and decide then. Decisions and situations changes with time and that’s why i dont see the point of figthing with my fiance now on this matter. That’s is what i tried to explain to my dad, that he should see the positive note of things and after all it was his wish that one of his daughter remained linked to his family.

I still think u should think carefully about getting married to him, better to change your mind now than after marriage. I know I wouldn’t b able to live in pakistan, it’s just so different to the UK.