Father Against Marriage

[SummerFruits]

Re: Father Against Marriage

@princessnadia87

Same reaction by dad had at the time of elder sister when she was of age of getting married. He just could not tolerate any " boy" being with my sister and getting married to one was a big no no. Dunno what kinda of a twisted mentality he was having.
But my mom and other elsers kept looking for suitable rishtas.
When my mom and isster found an appropriate rishta, they just went ahead with it. All along my dad kept making a big fuss and having hysterical fits at home of how everything is happening against his wishes and that my mom and sister will evenutally “suffer” fir going against him. Even though my brother in law himself was a very nice and elgible guy and his family was very well settled and nice people.

Some people just have weird logical reasoning in their head , esp people of the older generation. They sometimes do not know how to link their conservative mentality with the needs and reality of the modern world unfortunately.

I have no idea why her dad is being so difficult and really cannot understand his twisted mentality. When I talk to him he seems very normal and intelligent, and hes not even that conservative but then hes against his own daughters marriage??Like what even…

we cant go down the route of getting her married against her fathers wishes because then everything will blow up. He doesnt talk to his own wife as it is and it is really starting to affect their kids so doing this would only make it worse!