Sister.. dont listen to anybody on this forum.. because this forum is full of Ahmadi non-muslims and hindus and many more... you better read a book of Hadees-e-Nabwi (S.A.W.W) and read some other authentic literature.. So my advice to you is that you should not be asking such things on forums.. rather you should read by yourself.. everyone will answer you according to his/her own relegion, and you will be misguided..
Following your own advice, she should not listen to you either, right?