Fashion and Culture - Preteen Temptress

i thought this was interesting, how fashion statements “change” all of a sudden as something is over-done…and how something once “acceptable” in both society and culture is not so acceptable anymore…

here is the article, my views are posted at the end…


**YOU WILL be glad to learn that a backlash is impending in the fashion industry against absurdly revealing clothes. The trashy sexpot look – obediently adopted by 12-year-old girls everywhere, much to their parents’ dismay – is suddenly tout fini. The spring fashion shows this year feature blouses that are actually buttoned up, how shocking, and skirts that are longer than the wearer’s underpants. Some even hang to the knees.

Amy Astley, the editor of Teen Vogue, trumpets this new look in the March issue of her magazine. “Are you sick of watching nearly naked girls grinding next to fully dressed guys on MTV?” she asks in a letter from the editor. “Of movie stars and singers dressed as if they moonlight as strippers? Me, too! The vixen look has become so mainstream that it’s passé.”

Ironically, given the production cycle of magazines, Astley would have written this letter before Janet Jackson got into such trouble for her flashing antics at the Super Bowl. This hints at why Jackson and Justin Timberlake fell afoul: everyone was already getting sick of sex. Mind you, as far as I was concerned the problem wasn’t that the vixen look was too trendily mainstream; to me, it was that such garb was a tasteless throwback to a time when women got jobs if they had big hooters. Put another way, I have never looked at Pamela Anderson and thought: “Wow! What a style maven!” On the other hand, I have tried to puzzle out why anyone would want their principal accomplishment to be that they’d called the entire world’s attention to their breasts.

There is something spectacularly aimless about the state of undress of younger celebrities like Christina Aguilera and Britney Spears, given that their supposed vocation is to sing rather than swing. And what’s going on with their pseudo-lesbian French kissing and their hyper-sexual dance moves? Are they celebrating their sexual freedom after years of oppression? No. That happened several decades ago. Are they celebrating their fashion freedom after years of foot-binding and corsetry? No. Try the century before last. Did somebody spike their Evian with Spanish fly?

The sexual revolution had politics to it, whether you agreed with them or not. But those politics were played out. The statements were made. By the time we got to The Vagina Monologues, wherein audience members were asked questions like, “If your vagina was a celebrity, who would it be?” the revolution had run out of steam.

The mavens of the vixen look aren’t post-feminist. They’re a weird, disconcerting combination of pre-feminist/post-sexual revolution. They have no idea what to do with freely displayed sexuality beyond getting the attention of boys. And the deeply irksome part is, they are acting as role models for our daughters. Every now and then, my seven-year-old brings up Britney, and I act like I’ve been poked with a hot stick. “I think Britney Spears is good,” my daughter might say, and I rant, “She is not good, she is an idiot! There’s nothing between her ears but insecurity and air!” I feel like a mom from the fifties sounding off about Elvis.

If Teen Vogue tells its readers they will look cool in pretty paisley dresses and belted cardigans, that sounds good to me. A more demure trend would certainly have improved the costumes I saw at my daughter’s elementary school talent show in Toronto a few weeks ago. Up on the stage, in a gymnasium packed with proud parents, were children in halter tops and hip-hugging jeans, in groups of twos and threes, lip-synching to pop songs. These kids pretending to be music celebrities were interspersed with more conventional, and vastly more age-appropriate, acts performed by earnest little violinists and poets and tap dancers, their ponytails bouncing as they soft-shoed in black patent leather. It was as if there were a generation gap playing out right there on the stage, split down the middle of one peer group.

The casualness of sexual innuendo, so innocently adopted by these children, is leading them straight into a trend that has surfaced in headlines of late, that of 13-year-old girls giving oral sex to boys, and then shrugging it off as no big deal. A newspaper article detailed the phenomenon in middle schools, where so-called tweens, between 12 and 14, have somehow decided that it’s cool, and risk-free, to offer sexual service to boys. As I write this column, I note that seven middle-schoolers in Pensacola, Fla., have just been suspended: a staff member stumbled across the two girls and five boys having oral sex in the school bathroom.

Five years ago, the PBS program Frontline aired a documentary in which an outbreak of syphilis was traced by puzzled public health officials to a group of middle-schoolers in suburban Atlanta. The girls who had contracted this vile STD were interviewed as they sat on their frilly beds, still covered with stuffed animals and dolls.

That juxtaposition says it all. Thanks to fashion and pop culture, sex has colonized childhood, ensnared children. We need to set them free.

Patricia Pearson is a Toronto writer**

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article does point out the moral grounds for the last fashion statement that was around as being unacceptable…i was wondering though, that what norms in culture are society would deem something as appropriate or inappropriate to be broadcasted on the media and brain-wash everyone into “accepting” something as a norm…especially the more susceptible younger generation…

there certainly is another aspect that plays a bigger role in all of this…the article doesn’t mention the commercialization and profit motives behind introducing the “new looks” every now and then with sheer disregard for the consequences it will have on society or culture…

reminds me of the time that TV cartoons were solely made to sell products…anyone remember “He-man”? the cartoon was only made to sell the action figures…and same goes for everythin else around that time…

point being, that everything is so commercialized now, isn’t it just a way for these people to make a buck at the expense of others by getting a new look to be the “in” thing, and everythin else out?

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**i was wondering though, that what norms in culture are society would deem something as appropriate or inappropriate to be broadcasted on the media and brain-wash everyone into "accepting" something as a norm...especially the more susceptible younger generation...

...] point being, that everything is so commercialized now, isn't it just a way for these people to make a buck at the expense of others by getting a new look to be the "in" thing, and everythin else out?
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DM, Nice to see you posting in this forum.

yaar twice i typed out a reply to this thread earlier in the morning when the server was slow and both times my detailed reply didn't make it. i hope it works now Insha'Allah. i think you make a very valid point regarding the commercialization aspect. It is ALL about the money now, that is the bottom line. Every six months or so, the trends will change and you are bombarded with messages from the radio, tv, newspapers, ads on buses, ads from the net when you are innocously checking your e-mail, ads everywhere even at supposedly-neutral educational institutions like universities - it's ALL about commercialization and consumerism. The article talks about 12 year old girls. i remember when i was 12, i was too engrossed in my star wars comics and watching daffy duck on tv to ever even dream about such fashion trends. There's an immense generational gap between the 12 year olds from barely twenty years ago versus the 12 year olds of today. i think 'we'/society are forcing them to 'grow up' way beyond their level. It's sad but it's frightening at the same time. The culture here is beyond perverse... it's barbaric and demeaning.

an excellent article! and well pointed out DesiMunda.. these fashion trends are all a scam but i must say im happy that the fuller clothes look is back.. i was beginning to think im some granny from the 15th century. These 12-13 yr olds make me cringe when i see them lined up in those 3 inch skirts and boob tubes.. wat are they thinking?

^ Nothing much, apparently. Kids are in a race to join the rest of the world. Of those that are affected by peer pressure and media, kids are the most. Especially tweens and early-teens. They are trying to define themselves in the world, which can take on somewhat scary (at least to me) tendencies. There is an inherent amount of insecurity in everyone, but kids seem to have it a lot worse than anyone else.

^ agree... these kids just look like midget adults (actually some of them are much taller than me).. they seem to know everything from A-Z, but dont know how to handle things with a maturity.. dressing and acting older than they think does not necessarily mean they are mature and responsible..

I go to a high school right beside a middle school. It scares me and turns my stomach what these girls will wear, and some of these girls have yet to reach puberty.

Maturity is another matter, these kids get mature pretty fast and learn how to handle situations beyond the tried-and-true cry it off method. However, they don't learn the values of a lot of things in their pre-teens and early teens. Simple values like friendship, sincerity, and being who you are. These kids are under a lot of pressure though, all that time, from each other, from the media, they lose out on a lot of their childhood.

^ see i actually think they dont mature at all.. its just that they know all these things that an adult knows, but they have no idea how to deal with it.. maturity is when one knows the consequences of the action and will be strong enuff to make a proper decision.. my thinking neways..

^ I've always believed matured starts at the ability to understand situations and handle them well, emotionally. With your definition, these kids don't really mature at all. :)

^ hehe no i know a few kids who at a very young age know more than they need to but are also quite capable of making mature decisions.. then on the other hand i knwo some 15 yr olds who compare their lives to me and state they can do stuff just cus i "must" have done it as well... i do think kids mature, but maybe my definiton of maturity is slightly different :)