To be honest I want a simple wedding , no splendor, no hollering and wailing at the rukhsati, and no bollywood music…
All that attention from everyone you know and those who you don’t, lights up an ear to ear smile on your face while the photographer goes “snap , snap, snap”, which reassures you that the compulsive sociopath has left your body, albeit temporarily and the exhibitionist in you is still alive and kicking. I know I will carry the sam ridiculous smile on my face till some one shook me up and said “get over it, you are getting married not martyred”
back in the old days..shadi was simple.
one laal jora..one green maybe for the dulhan, shervani and saleem shahi for the doolha.
biryani , qorma and zarda…
one shadi, one valima..
mehndi mayoon were homely affairs…