Re: Family violence
In our asian families, wen severe beating is involved to the extent where it even leads to death, its usually coz of maintaining the honour, and there are many cases of honour killingz. I think ppl resort to such when parentz feel there is no other way of resolving the issue, which is quite pathetic! coz i feel it all dependz on upbringing, if u illustrate the wrong n rights from a very young age, the child would hav sum sense of direction, but ofcourse if u dnt giv ur children time n then one day they do sumthing which is totally against ur moralz etc then u end up beating them to death....totally wrong coz itz not the child'z fault itz the parentz fault!
Beating isnt the answer to anything anyway, especially when kids are involved coz children tend to rebel even more if they are hit and sum even get used to the frequent beatingz anyway hence they go tht step further the next time...wont help in making the child a better person, also the child will build hatred towards the parent and wont listen or do wat the parent expectz anyway, which will result in both parties being extremely distanced and the parentz will hav to put up with more of the bad behaviour which is out of their control.
Ofcourse sum families go thru' domestic violence and wen children n wife suffer for very little reasons, for example the hubby beats wife for doing sumthing slightly wrong, or if hes totally crazy and takes pleasure from beating his family up...tht's non-tolerable and should b reported to the authorities, living in the countries we do, we hav many ways out and we shudnt feel tht we cant go n talk to "outsiders". Violence is sumthing no one should learn to live with!