Re: Family violence
^ exactly! It’s found A LOT in other races as well. Like have you never seen gorays and kalays out ont he road smacking their kid about like as if it’s normal. It’s so embarrassing for the child as well! Because ofoucrse your not gonna want a crowd to look down at you whislt your parent hits you 
Actual abuse, to the point where that child lives in fear inside his/her own home is just ridiculous! I think if parents give their time to their kids when they are at a very young age and onwards, and they show strictness as well as love you can’t go wrong! Reward them for their good deeds and just tell them not to do it again for their wrong ones…I don’t have a problem with little thuds on their back or bottom…but actually hitting the child’s hed and pushing him/her about and smacking his/her face till it’s bright red is stupid!
My mum’s never hit me so hard that i am in REAL pain, she’s always been gentle…raised her voice but not abused me…ofcourse I’ve had a joota come my way once in a while but y’now, I deserve it sometimes 
