I have known the guy’s family for years now. They are a very down to earth and humble family. I think it is everyone’s own right to select some one best for their children who their children have to attend to their entire life.
No one is looking for money or the ‘Jahez’ they will get etc. They are a bit doubtful about their lifestyle - what is the big deal with that? Its their child who has to meet her family every other day, you should think over these things before hand than create problems for any one else and your self.
Many of the guppies here have said soo many times we dont want an FOB, No Desi material etc. What is the big deal if a guy’s family has the same concern with he girl’s family. They are discussing it with each other and ought to sort out such concerns beforehand. If they find some one way too desi and backward in their lifestyle there is a wide difference, which i believe would be a little concern for many people which does not make them materialistic or shallow for that matter.