Re: Family Versus Girl - what should you do?
I think you guys are being really harsh. Its better to think about these things now then have to deal with the ramifications later. If the guy's side want someone who is socially/ academically on par with them then they should find another girl.
Its better to say what you really want from the onset than resent someone later.
I think too many people like to think that certain things won't bother them when in fact they do and they will bother them in the future. One shouldn't have to 'deal with it' once its done, they should think through before they ruin lives.