Ever since i’ve gotten married, 10 months ago, i am being treated like a “stranger” and “outsider” by my
brothers. When i visit them there is barely a hello by them, i say hello and they dont even look at me! They
avoid me all the time, even if i’m around after a months gap ![]()
The other day the elder one said that im not part of the family anymore and the younger bro said that i have
no rights at “their” home anymore, that my old room is no more mine and that i will never have “shares” in
anything.
My dad paid for an air ticket 4 me and on learning this my brothers lost control over their anger and said
that i should stop being a big burden on papa now that im married. They also constantly say rude things about
my husband and harshly abuse my inlaws.
Now that im pregnant all this hurts alot… yesterday i was like plz stop it and dont give me unneccessary
tension coz im expecting. He said to hell with that, as if i care! They shouted at me coz i said that im not
allowed to lift heavy things and defined me as very useless ![]()
I love my brothers and im here for 10 days more… dont know when i’ll be here after this (they live abroad
and i live in pakistan). They are 16 and 20 years old and just mean 2 me and very often abuse me.
Hmm, my brothers play the innocent in front of my parents. I cant complain to them daily coz my bro (big) got
mega scolded twice and then he took revenge also.
Im just sad that despite me loving them so much - they treat me badly and everything i do (whether phone or
internet even) they say that its not my right and that its their property and say that i have 2 pay 4
everything.
Plz pray that they turn into good boys, so that my parents can be proud of them.