family responsibilities?

im feeling so depressed..i dont find it easy to live wid family ..when i was alone i was kinda happy …don no what happend after i moved wid family ..i dont feel comfortabel ..i dont mix up with ppl…i m always lost in my own world..i m anti social person ..i do realize that i need to spend some time with family but i dont …i often suffer guilt n think, “m I a selfish daughter/realtive” Do I not do enough? etc …Can i change myself ?

you know the def. you gave sounds like the def. of a nerd :)

Just accompany your family for a few weeks, and plan everyday a few hours with em.
you might be surprized :)

and give GS a break, 20k posts in 3 years is a whole lotta posting :)

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you know the def. you gave sounds like the def. of a nerd :)

Just accompany your family for a few weeks, and plan everyday a few hours with em.
you might be surprized :)
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I did that ..tried many times... no fun ..i get tired n want to stay alone , i know i hurt them but cant help it :o ..maybe i m selfish person !

Maniac ur right ..i need a break from everything ...im getting tired of my so called life i guess .

it takes time .... as it seems you are not use to it ...

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and give GS a break, 20k posts in 3 years is a whole lotta posting :)
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Thats the key. Now adays ppl have enuf time to chat with virtual friends on NET but no time to sit with the real ppl around.

Try what others said , it will take few weeks then it will be fine. I hope soo

Buy your sibs presents.

Wolfee not everyone can bribe his way into family…:roman:

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I did that ..tried many times... no fun ..i get tired n want to stay alone , i know i hurt them but cant help it :o ..maybe i m selfish person !

Maniac ur right ..i need a break from everything ...im getting tired of my so called life i guess .
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Sandaleen, we all feel this way sometimes, all you need is a change of pace, a change of routine, if you dont get out much, try doing that, hang out with friends for a while, go watch a movie, but dont stay inside the house.RT Wolf has a good point, try and make others happy, man finds true happiness when he makes his/her loved ones happy. Thats the main point.

aww :frowning:

:hug: