Is there anything you would like to change? Perhaps spend some quality time ( family as a whole), have your meals together, share problems etc.
Re: Family life
**alhamdolillah, we've a very good structured family life. i live with my bro, bhabhii and their 3 children. we used to have quality time together. since the kids have all moved out attending universities and one bhateeji already married mashaa Allah now, we are only three people in the house until i move out to start my own family. we still have quality times but we miss input from kids in our conversations. they do come home for winter, summer holidays and then we have same good old times once again.
i wish the kids didn't move out and they went to the same university where my bro teaches and i work as a researcher. they didn't have to. i think kids wanted their independance.**
Re: Family life
spend some quality time with the family....
Re: Family life
Well I have very demanding work schedule and my mother admomished me several times for not spending enough time at home… she is always taking the Wifes side and I’m almost seen as a ruffian who does not care about my fammily only my own success and constant struggle.
But deep down while I love my work I also love my fammily and look forward to a long break in a couple of months time. After the Wedding we spent a lot of time together but work got in the way and all through summer and winter i’ve been working like a madman… when I’m not working i’m out competing or training and always it seems i’m neglecting my duties to my fammily…
I pray I can come to a balance between the two… and if that were not enough trouble my friends and companions, veterans and students all miss my comradrie and company while they are inwardly pleased how i’m living they all know that if I dont keep them together they will all scatter and look for new goals… it takes years to form decent friendships and we have become an elite and cohesive unit but we don’t like it when our fellowship is divided or brethren start dropping out of the ranks…
It’s all very complicated trying to balance duties, fammilies and friendhsips… 