it should not matter how one speaks to others,
what matters is how one talks to a given person?
otherwise, you are falling prey to false perception of someone NOT being single-minded for/about you, able to concur with you and be confident of you.
do you agree with this? why or why not?
how much, do you feel, your own openmindedness and secure self has to do with this situation?
how can you make the doubtful person know that he is wrong?
should you have to explain it to him?
has he really understood you then, in real?
does he care to understand you?
should he not know, by seeing the signs?
share if you like.
Dushwari