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life does suck sometimes haina?
Inshallah the right guy will come ur way… :k: until then enjoy life.. ur only young once.. go travelling!!!
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^ It does suck and these men will never improve..
joins the club of men-hating ladies
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some ppl don’t get it ghaib dimagh prof…
u give someone a chance once…twice…maybe three times…but no more if they continue the same way…
hope u feel better soon…
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I dont think you fall out of love. It just gets buried under the hurt.
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^ Why though? Why can't they just be themselves?
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I dont know. Perhaps their love was never real to start with?
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sounds like insecurity, if they aren’t themselves…u should be asking him that question…
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^ and what makes you think i have never mentioned this to him? :-|
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i didn’t say u haven’t 
i didn’t even assume that…i was just sayin thats where the answer is…in his reply to that question…
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you know, I kinda agree with you. Guys do so much crap to impress a girl… 
for e.g. lying.. 
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I am finding out the truth after fives years.. FIVE YEARSSSSSSSSSS !!! fkn crazy!
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The bright side of falling out of love is - it meant that he was never the right guy for you. Better realised now, than too late 
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His reply is too overwhelming that I end up forgiving him… not this time. I’ve had enough.
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Well best thing is to sit and think it through. It was not meant to be but InshAllah a nicer guy will come along. So dont worry over it. Sometimes we see only their positive side…takes a while to see their flaws.
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i know what u mean…sometimes u just have to step back when u can’t take it anymore…take a step back, and first get ur mind clear…and then think if its somethin that u can work on, or not, specially if its somethin that u’ve already tried working on numerous times before…can get really tedious to go thru the same thing/same issues over and over again (thats what it sounds like atleast here in ur case)…and only after u’ve evaluated that, decide on a course of action…its best to let go in certain circumstances, cuz if u keep on trying and u know its gonna keep on happening, u’ll just end up hurting urself more
i dunno if any of that made sense to u
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yeah..it really toook me a while..
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dont debase whatever connection you have of him by posting it here, where he has only you to defend him.
give the possibility a thought that he stuck with you because he actually cared for you. under those circumstances, what you do here is quite cruel, whether he knows it or not.
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^ you need two hands to clap. You are basically saying that he can get away with his lies if he cares about me. I didn't lie to him and I still cared about him all this while. What made him lie to me? Who the hell lies about his birthday???????? yeah it was his name, his family and things like that he lied about before. Now it's his birthday. What BS.
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im not defending him, nor would I wish to do so given that I dont know you much less him. Im saying that as someone who's been committed to you for five years, you owe him and your 'love' better than to post about him on an online forum where the only person who could possibly defend him is you.
im sure his person isnt as black and white as it seems to you right now, but for the sake of the happy moments you two have had, dont betray his memory and private life to strangers.