Do you think its weird to start liking someone just by their posts? I mean is this possible to you? What about falling in love with someone due to their writing? This isnt even chatting I am talking about. This is just posting.
If a guppie told you they want to know you more just because they like the way you write your posts, will you think they are weird and ask them to get a life? Or do you think thats completely normal? Will you be scared? Will you think maybe they like 500 guppies for the same reason?
And no, this thread is not about me liking someone, hehe. Just something I was thinking of when I read some peoples posts and responses.
I mean I know flirting goes on between people here, but my guess is that its kept at a minimum and doesnt go beyond that.
My whole thing is, can you really start liking someone just by what they write? Or is that just weird? And would you want to know if someone did like you for this reason?
I think u should never ever have crush or like someone by just the way they post..yeah u can write the way they talk ONLINE…yeah u can try talking to him/her and see if u like his/her real personality also, if yes then go ahead with all means, but dont hurt ur self by likeing someone who can post nicely online but in real life has a bad personality
lazy, I will not provide any names unless bribed. snooty hehe. j/k It's not about me. Sachiiiiiiiiii!
Furqan, I just mean starting to like someone. My question really means will you consider getting to know someone who tells you they like your posts and thinks you are a cool person due to the way you post? Or could you possibly like someone for the way they write?
Love is weird. It can just happen without anny reason. This again is a very valid reason. Thats my opinion. Yes it can happen due to this reason as well. Falling in love with many others for the same reason could just be lack of trust or like that you have in him.
if its possible to absolutely hate someone for the way they write (as some peopel appear to do here) I dont see why the opposite cant be true
Especially if the poster's are from a restricted culture ...sometimes perhaps that doesnt even have anything to do with it
you can take the words, form a person in your mind and fall in love with the person you have created in your mind
They are not real
the person in your mind and the real person behing the nick will be different, how much different depends upon a number of factors...your emotional, rational state of mind, teh information they impart about themselves, etc..
As crazy as it sounds… the way a person talks, walks aswell writes can leave many impressions in ones heart! I would call it love but just a keen interest, it is the style of the action that one admires… not the person, coz u dont know him/ her until u talk to the person and see him in person. I guess it’s normal
Yeah, when u’ve met the person and like more about him/ her and start thinking about the person more often… then its love
All of us express ourselves here when we post/write. This is natural.
Mostly people write/post to express themselves. and when they write, they are speaking their mind, the truth about themselves. So, unless they're fooling the entire world or are writing fake posts which in reality have nothing to do with their real-life personality and they way they think/do things, it is not strange for anyone to be impressed or like someone from what they read from them. Posting is a way of sharing thoughts / opinions / one's own personal ideas with other people about a specific topic. So, definitely there is a possibility of completely agreeing or disagreeing with some else's point of view.
Many times, you'd find someone sharing your opinion on one issue but not on the other one. But there is a possibility that you may find someone writing/posting ideas/personal opinions and view point which you may think are YOUR OWN. When you find someone else expressing YOU. I mean you read someone else's thoughts typed by themselves but find that you do not have to write/post anything cz you would have written exactly the same. So, ofcourse it'd surprise you, wouldnt it? I mean how can someone else write YOUR thoughts on a matter? And if the co-incidence (of reading your own thoughts posted by someone else) happens in almost all (or majority of) the issues/topics being discussed then that sure is crazy. So, ofcourse it is possible and it is not crazy.
I would think that it is possible to like someone based on their posts alone, cause there are plenty of people here who dislike/hate each other so I don't see why the opposite can't happen. I still think it's easier to dislike/hate than have romantic feelings develop. Then again, I've seen people here become good friends just based on posts alone so I guess anything is possible.
Yeah it is possible to like or dislike someone coz of their posts.. i mean you c the way they write, how they feel but most importantly, how they interact with others.. some are respectful, some are pricks :) but i don't think u can get romantic feelings on just posts alone .... maybe by chatting, on the fone, online, meeting in person, feelings cna develop but not by posts alone> :)
LOL...... was the question about feeling 'romantic' about someone through there posts? That's ridiculous. I dont think THAT can happen reading their 'point of views' about the practicalities of life. Just the 'respect' and 'likeness' for the other person can happen but 'romance' requires much more than that.
I think one falls for an ideal...If not falling, then certainly admiration...
One creates an image of a guppie in mind, an image one admires and drapes it over his or her posts and waits for their replies...
Who knows if an online persona is as the same as offline...I've never been able to figure that out about myself...Whether I am the same offline as online...
jk
