^OMG once AGAIN you fail to understand the issue which we are discussing. It's not about me defending the OP its about the fact that it's inappropriate of you to diss those who want to be fairer. You may be dark and may be happy with it but it does not mean that everyone is. Accordingly, if you are unable to reply to the question being put forward by the OP there is no need to go of topic.
I'm fair and I find fair skin attractive. Do you see me going around telling people not to use tanning lotions and to accept themselves the way they are? NO. Seriously, just admit that you made an inappropriate comment which was uncalled for because that's what has happend. Or I guess on the other hand you can continue wasting your time and making a fool of yourself by failing to understand the point of this thread.
Freedom of speech honey, live with it. You're probably one of those fair skin creme users hence all the frustration.
Enjoyed your little rant, quite amusing :)