Fair & Lovely and White Skin

Das_Reich · November 14, 2012, 12:15am

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I think its overrated …my best friend is a really good catch he married a girl with “wheatish skin color” because thats what he likes more.He had a lot of rishtas from “gori” larkis
I personally prefer tall well built and almost obese girls, skin color is secondary to me.

I think its more female relatives of boys than boys themselves as its a status symbol for them, “trophy bahu” am i the first one to coin this term ?

xjatti2khanx · November 14, 2012, 12:24am

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Although i dont agree nor believed that these creams work my friend who i hadnt seen in months has used loaddssss and was a nice sanwali colour before but now she looks sooo much fairer, i was shocked to see her

Kinzz · November 14, 2012, 12:29am

Really? Thats interesting

xjatti2khanx · November 14, 2012, 12:55am

Fair & Lovely and White Skin

Kinzz i will show you a pic later!

Kinzz · November 14, 2012, 12:59am

waiting

Oh and I wanted to show a picture,let me send it to you.

STA · November 15, 2012, 3:47pm

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Gore rang ka zamana, kabhi hoga na purana, Gori dar tujhe kis ka hay, Tera to rang gora hay.

Familiar with the demand for “gora rang” (fair complexion) for would the be daughter in- law? Believe it or not, it is one of the major problems faced by many girls especially as far as their ‘getting married’ is concerned. A girl is rejected on the basis of her color, no matter if she is a duly qualified, bright professional, well mannered, well groomed, and attractive. The only thing that matters is her gora chamri. And it makes no difference if the prospective groom is only the first copy of Rajni Kanth. Not that I’m against him, but I don’t even think he can be a perfect suitor for Aishwarya Rai.

However, unfortunately it has now become a trend in our society. And this materialistic approach of our society shows that we still live in Stone Age, where we still consider woman as an object to be decked in one’s showroom.

To change this mindset of our society is a difficult task indeed. Because in our part of the world “gora rang” is used as a yardstick to measure beauty. It is incomprehensible why we as a society and as individuals are so obsessed with it? Why we consider gora rang the acme of real beauty? Whereas in my opinion darker complexion looks far more attractive. And there are loads of other important things that should be taken into consideration other than skin color for the selection of a girl for the post of bride-to-be

Discrimination on the basis of color is a bigger sin then dowry, and so rejection on the basis of color is utmost humiliating for a girl that it pushes them into depression and even to suicide in extreme cases. To make one self-beautiful (considering gora rang the only criteria for beauty) demand for fairness formula or creams are also on rise for the past many centuries. And to further infuriate the situation we have advertisement of these fairness creams, which are on a drive to deceive.

No wonder we see so many skin-care products, lotions on the racks and countless beauty regimes that aim at one thing alone-making you gori.

In nutshell, instead of judging beauty by gora rang try to look other aspects of beauty which include overall personality, style, skills, manners, qualification etc. Don’t consider woman just a commodity or some expensive decoration piece place on some display shelf.

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ninja_hattori · November 15, 2012, 3:58pm

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mehmood..the male actor in song is using hyderabadi(indian) urdu in that song

STA · November 15, 2012, 3:59pm

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link

ninja_hattori · November 15, 2012, 4:02pm

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kya link:snooty:

KKF ne post to kia hua hai…“hume kaale hai to kya hua”…

Kinzz · November 15, 2012, 4:47pm

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Oh ok. I didn’t notice.

KKF · November 16, 2012, 1:30am

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how can you NOT notice Hyderabadi dialect? it’s soooo strong!

khattichic · November 16, 2012, 1:38am

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^ kuch bolay?

saadIII · November 16, 2012, 1:38am

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Ahhhh. Wahan Dunia itni agay nikal gai hy nd here people are digging in complction. Damit. Doesn’t this sucks !!!

Kinzz · November 16, 2012, 1:43am

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Yes, they were waiting for you to come and say something about song

KKF · November 16, 2012, 1:44am

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haN bibi, apun bole na k Kheema pakaanaa hai aaj apun ko!

Kinzz · November 16, 2012, 1:45am

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Lol @ digging

Are you trying to say yeh sach nahi hai?

saadIII · November 16, 2012, 1:50am

Fair & Lovely and White Skin

Well kinz it’s reality , but not as a serious matter to be discussed as people here are involved in.

P_G · November 18, 2012, 2:09pm

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asal main hazrat adam alyhi salam or bibi hawwa bohat goray bulkay surkh o sufaid thay

mufasreen karam likhtay hain k Allah nay hussan k 100 hisson main say 99 % hiisa hazrat adam ko diya or baqee 1% main say 99 hissay hazrat yousaf alyhi salam ko deye or 1 hissa poore duniya ki makhlooq per taqseem kia..

ab jub hazrat adam or hawa itnay khobsoorat thay to shaid hamara khameer main main bhi wohe mitti hai isee ley gora rang ko sub to nahi lakin aksar pasand kertee hai..

ise ley yeh creams jo k ik insani nafsiyaat say khailte hain itne biktee hain…

muqawwee123 · November 18, 2012, 2:16pm

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per husn ki tafseer gora rung hi kiyun li jati hai?

P_G · November 18, 2012, 2:23pm

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hussn ko app zahiree tor per agar dekhna chahain to behrhaal gora rang count hota hay .. kion k sufaid rang khud apni zaat main aankhoon ko acha lagta hay …lakin yeh koi qanoon nahi h k her ik par sadiq aye lakin..aksaree bat hay is ley raaij hai…werna hussn i tareef her insan apne sooch say kerta hay