Im sure we’ve all been there/done that (or at least know someone who has) when it comes to uncertainty over our future…
mY Question to you is how do you deal wtih it?
Im sure we’ve all been there/done that (or at least know someone who has) when it comes to uncertainty over our future…
mY Question to you is how do you deal wtih it?
Re: Facing Uncertainty in your life
being confused, apprehensive…and freaking out every now and then ![]()
Re: Facing Uncertainty in your life
procrastinate, think about it over and over again, talk about it to anybody that would listen, bore people about it until finally i reach a well thought out, for sure decision! it takes me a really long time when dealing with serious, important, uncertainty b/c it will affect the rest of my life, when i finally reach a decision though, i follow through with it since i thought it through so much
i talk about it here in life1 with all you nice people :p
Re: Facing Uncertainty in your life
dont let it consume you, think of other things you like. let the phase pass.
Re: Facing Uncertainty in your life
go for a run or have a nice bath and relax and somehow that answers are inside my brain somewhere.
Re: Facing Uncertainty in your life
Pray!!
Praying to God really helps.. Preparing yourself for all the possibilites and being content with them :)
InshaAllah just take it as it comes, and before you know it the uncertainty will be over & done with :)
Re: Facing Uncertainty in your life
We have the answers if we know where exactly to look=].i normally get disaappointed then sad, then i cry ,then i get mad and then i think of all the things that can go wrong ,then i am frustrated and i tell myself its ok to be a failure for once in life , then comes the phase where i take a fresh start towards not being a total loser face until the cycle starts again.
Re: Facing Uncertainty in your life
O Man! Uncertainty kills me. I become an ugly, scary, afraid person who just procrastinates.
I have only recently learned to cope with it slightly better. I focus on what needs to be done right now, or the next step in order to help me decide. Sometimes it means for me to calm the hell down, get more info, or take a small step. After repeating that a couple times, I am able to make a decision.
Re: Facing Uncertainty in your life
I think it all out .....
if outcome X is uncertain ....... think through all other possibilities, where they would lead, their outcome, their impact on my overall plans
in cases of prolonged periods of uncertainty .... I do all of the above plus start actively working on making better/improving the next most desirable outcome ...
Re: Facing Uncertainty in your life
Work hard!