He comes to discuss all his problems, business advice etc. I think his fiances mom was a bit more involved in his home purchase. No I don’t really give unsolicited advice and let people do whatever. Kids have a long history with him so it might be a bad thing for them. I am a very humble person and don’t let disrespect get in the way. Maybe I will see if my wife and kids might want to go by themselves. His fiance was saying that he was crying when he heard that I was a bit ill so he really seems to care. He had a really nasty childhood and maybe no one thaught him to behave properly. In the beginning I had to teach him how to be nice to his girlfriend also. My wifes nephews seem to show so much caring. her nephew in Toronto and Boston are insisting so much that kids go to visit. I have done so much for the family and all I got is disrespect. All because I married without their permission and wouldn’t let them abuse my wife.