I think this is a great topic! So good to read some heart-warming incidents amidst all the negativity for a change.
well, i'm not married yet BUT my in laws are sooo awesome. since MIL is in pak she's doing ALL the wedding shopping in this extreme summer despite being sick. She has made a billion trips to tailors jewelers etc for all wedding, valima, mehndi attire and she is working so hard to make sure everything is perfect. the other day, she called just to confirm that that i really wanted the 4-inch heel shoes for my wedding cuz she found these amazing shoes but the heel is only 3-inches and she wanted to ask if its ok that she buys the 3-inch ones instead. lol. i was like, i had no idea my MIL would be soo caring about all the little details that usually no one but the dulhan thinks about :)
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I think my mum will make the worlds best MIL. I however, am evil incarnate.
Women/Girls who have supporting husbands would not get into the depth of the problems with in laws. But if the husband is further away than the supportive kind, they dont have a choice. They have to fight for their rights and have to face all the crappy situations and have no choice but to get involved in these silly issues!
I do agree with u....but one shud always keep both dor open to see the full picture.......Good luck to all.
I don't have in laws yet, but have a bhabi so I'm the 'evil' SIL lol but no my bhabi has never once had to complain about anything since shes been here, and mashallah thats going to be 6 years next month :) its like shes always been here, and being the only daughter shes been like a sister to me. i could sit here all day telling you stories, but the best one has to be the time we were planning on going on vacation to Pakistan, it was only supposed to be me and my mum but bhabi had been feeling really homesick so we suprised her with a ticket too :) we told her not to tell her family back home, so we flew to karachi and got her a ticket to lahore, rang her family and told them, we (me and my mum) were coming to visit so can someone pick us up at this date/time from the airport. and then when the day came, her dad came to pick 'us' up from the airport and was greeted by her daughter and grandson :D she got home, rang us and told us about how EVERYONE cried because they were so shocked and happy. my mums philosphy has always been, she'll treat her daughter in laws like her daughters, cause that how she wants her daughter to be treat when she gets married. shes a smarttt women.
awww mA mA this made me cry. May Allah SWA bless every girl with a mother like yours !
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awwwww such lovely stories....i want sum nice in-laws aswell!!:(